What is your view on sex?

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•	Do you view sex as a fun activity that is to be enjoyed (safely of course, have to have the protection never raw then the morning pill)
•	One night stands are fun and enjoyable (safely)
•	Should just be done in a relationship
•	Should be done in a long term relationship (more making love then sex)
•	Should only be done when married (more making love then sex).

What is the difference between making love and sex you might ask? Lol

Well I think making love is like when you take things slow and watch each other and feel very close to your partner, the end goal is to make each other have an orgasm and let the Oxytocin hit her and then cuddle as she want too and talk about everything and anything (last bit just me and my girl).

Sex is just an activity and you, role play or try crazy stuff and the end goal is again to achieve orgasm. It’s kind of wild sex that involves anything and everything including crazy fetish that you both might have noisy and messy. 

My opinion is that all 5 points are ok for the individual human and how they view sex, you should never judge anyone. I like both making love and sex.

Side question what would you rather do more of have sex or make love?

? · Accepted Answer

My wife and I are both in our 50's and our kids have grown and gone. We have been together for 25 years, we were both 29 when we got together. The "then-and-now" attitude we have for sex is probably something more than I can express interestingly, I will say that we still have sex well above what the socially accepted average is for married people our age, and we both constantly find things to do for the other to keep it interesting. As far as the difference between making live and having sex, for us the former usually takes place on anniversaries, special occasions and when the romantic mood strikes. The latter can happen anytime, (almost) anywhere, the last time was out complex swimming pool at midnight after we got the security guard to kill the light.

Bommie · Answer

I'm not a one night stand girl, I have respect for myself regardless of protection. I rarely have sex with condoms, I'm happy on the pill and before the pill I would just take the morning after pill. I don't care if people judge me for that but I've never had sex out of a relationship. I don't even find sex fun with strangers, which is why I don't do that. It's just not enjoyable for me without that barrier a condom has. I think sex and making love are all the same. The difference to me is making love is sex with the one who loves you and you love them. :)

cutie · Answer

I think that sex should be more for a long-term relationship or for marriage.  Even though it may start out as making love, you can also just have sex in relationships too. It would be nice to find someone that can also give you an orgasm...

Todd · Answer

I just want the partner to have fun. I agree with most of what you say. The love orgasm is more intense than the plain jane sex one.

? · Answer

Should be done in a secure and permanent relationship.  Other than that, go wild (and don't have anal sex because that will tear open your anal walls and expose fecal matter to raw flesh).

Bimmy · Answer

It depends on the individual.. I see it as a good way to have fun, a good way to bond with a mate, and the best way to reproduce.

Anonymous · Answer

None of the above.
I think it's disgusting and violating.

And the phrase 'make love' is so cheesy.  I'd rather eat pizza.

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer to view it in the mirrors above my bed

Anonymous · Answer

I think sex is overrated.

I wouldn't do both.

? · Answer

It's quite sexual to say the least.

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