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How can i get over the fact that my boyfriend watches porn?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years now and I have caught him watching porn a few times. Every time I go through stages. First, very excepting and calm about it(which is how I like it). Then I begin analyzing it and feeling insecure and depressed about it. Next, I always re confront him about it, and every time iI think I make him feel bad.
I do not want to make him feel bad about it but iI always end up doing that. My problem is the last time I caught him he knew I would be home in just a few minutes. So I think he prefers looking at porn than looking at me. I am worried he is getting bored with me and I don't know what to do. I just want some sort of advice on how I can get over feeling bad about it.
5 Answers
- ?Lv 77 years ago
The problem is you "catch" him doing something normal and reasonable. This sets up a dynamic that is sure to fail. Guys like porn, even if they have the sexiest woman in the world. It's fantasy only. It's not about you. Just ask him to be discrete about it and if you happen to "catch" him again, don't bring it up.
He won't grow bored with you over porn. He'll grow frustrated with you if you keep making an issue where one doesn't exist.
- GnomeLv 47 years ago
Why is it a problem ? If he enjoys doing something and you want him to stop doing it for the sake of the relationship then you create a negative in the relationship.
Maybe you're just not right for each other. You should never have to sacrifice for the sake of a relationship. That just means you're trying to get by. It means you're faking it.
- 7 years ago
If he did it on purpose he either has some sexual desire or fetish he doesn't feel comfortable asking directly or hes manipulative and wants you to feel bad or hes an idiot. If it was by accident, women need to understand that men need a non sexual release.
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- Anonymous7 years ago
Don't get over it. It is a really bad thing to do. Dump him immediately and warn everyone else about him and tell them not to be his friend.
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85% of porn stars are prostitutes and raped
most have stds
85% $ goes to organized crime and most is untaxed
neighborhoods with porn business have 500% more sexual offenses
average life expectancy after a child becomes a ho is 7 years
average age of death is 20 years.
95% of women want to get out of prostituion
93% prostitutes expirence violent client
88% hos threatened with a weapon
63% hos are raped
46% raped by customer
78% raped adverage 16times by pimp
adverage 33 times/year by johns
horribly beaten 58 times/year by pimp
beaten by johns 400 times/year
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95% hos sexually abused as children
80% of hos got raped
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contraception/condom fails 1 out of 33 times you have sex.
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There is a 99.99% + chance he is having sex with others. Not because he is watching porn, it because he is a male.
99.99%+ of males only want sex and will lie to get it and will cheat and have sex with someone else the second your not looking.
Don't have sex.