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How can i get over the fact that my boyfriend watches porn?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years now and I have caught him watching porn a few times. Every time I go through stages. First, very excepting and calm about it(which is how I like it). Then I begin analyzing it and feeling insecure and depressed about it. Next, I always re confront him about it, and every time iI think I make him feel bad.

I do not want to make him feel bad about it but iI always end up doing that. My problem is the last time I caught him he knew I would be home in just a few minutes. So I think he prefers looking at porn than looking at me. I am worried he is getting bored with me and I don't know what to do. I just want some sort of advice on how I can get over feeling bad about it.

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  • 7 years ago
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    Girls don't understand how horny a guy really is. I mean we get horny all the time and instead of constantly pressuring our GF's for sex we watch porn. We can get pretty cranky if we are all pent up with no release and this does not work out well for our lady partners.

    We know that we are watching porn and not another girl so it is not cheating. The guy is obviously with you because he cares about you, he is just meeting his physical needs without having to put strain on you.

    When push comes to shove he would rather be having sex with you guaranteed but thats not always possible so porn would be better than fantasizing about co-workers or the hot girl at the coffee shop don't you think?

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I'm kinda in the same situation. My bf watches cam girls.. That's even worse ugh. I just accepted it. It still bugs me but I love him so yeah. I don't think you should worry though. There are so so many guys with a gf that still watch porn.

    It's just something that guys like to do O_o

    Try to talk to him and tell him how you feel. I know it's harf but yeah...

    Source(s): Been there
  • 7 years ago

    Listen all guys have or still do watch it. It's not that he doesn't like you or wants you to be something you're not its just a past time. Maybe you should watch it with him. See what he likes and do that if you think he's getting bored.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Every guy watches porn, it's like a escape of reality for them. Just a fantasy world for him

    Source(s): I'm a guy
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    7 years ago

    well the more you try to make him feel bad the more he will do it and the more you push him A way from you and I am sure you don't want that. Maybe you should and look at it with him it might make your love life much better. Any way good luck

  • 7 years ago

    Watch it with him. Take some notes. Im not saying that he doesn't like the way you do it but you can always surprise him with some new moves :) That's what i do lol

  • Sounds like time for a parting of the ways.

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