seems i give great advice ..yet my life sucks.?

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Anytime someone has a problem or going through something I give them great advice.
Yet my life ..well it could be a lot worse I thank god for what I have really.

I think I've love a certain person nearly all of my life.
Yet he's with someone new now.
Yet sometimes we chat..and it feels Like a special connection..
He's the only one who can get deep into my soul and emotions.

I usually don't let anyone in due to trust issues.
Yet he's so far away and with someone.
 Its not like he knocked on my door here I am let's stop playing these childish games I'm ready for you.
No that hasn't happened.
Something deep in my heart loves him though its hard to explain I get a loving warm close feeling like a feather down comforter feeling from his love wrapped around me..
I wanna hug him all night.
Yet reality I think I hurt his feelings and he hates me..
We both hurt each in different ways.
Unintentionally I was younger and extremely shy
Especially with him and we had moments to talk yet didn't.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You seem to have analyzed this pretty well, so my guess is, deep down, you know how to fix it, you're just scared to, because it includes letting go of your idealized-dream of him.

If you didn't make a move when you had the chance, and only want him, when he's wanting someone else, that tells you something, that maybe you like the idea of him, more so than him.

About having a secret-crush, could it be you're keeping that alive, to avoid having to meet new people, maybe find a new, available boyfriend?

When you're ready, try to stop thinking about life, love, and loneliness so much, and simply do more, meet people, develop your skills, and talents(arts, sports, dance, and so on), and work on becoming a more whole-person, because the more familiar you get with YOU, the better you can relate to others.

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