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How weird would it be for his girlfriend to watch?
I'm a guy, and in-the-closet bi. My friend is the same, except he has a girlfriend and he has told her he is interested in experimenting with a guy. He and I both know about each other, but have never done anything with each other yet, but have discussed it and are both open to it. It would be the first time with a guy for both of us. I've met his gf once, but don't really know her.
Here's the catch. He wants me to come over and he wants us to do all kinds of gay things to each other, but he wants her to be there and watch. IF she wants to, she'd be allowed to join and he would do stuff with her, while I continued to do stuff with him.
How weird is that? I totally thought it would be very private with just him and me, and I'd feel pretty uncomfortable doing things with anybody else knowing, much less watching!
Anybody else ever have their first gay experience occur while somebody else watched????!!! I'm not sure what to do, but I'm very interested in experimenting and experiencing stuff.
It is kind of emotional for me, because I have real feelings for him and want to be with him. I'm pretty sure for him though, that it's purely sexual. When i first mentioned to him that I was actually bi and wanted to try stuff with someone, he immediately said "how about me?". I just really wanted it to be just him and me alone. I have a week to figure this out.
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- ?Lv 67 years agoFavorite Answer
if it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it.
that would make me uncomfortable, and I would not want to do it.
then again, sex is more emotional for me, and I can only form strong romantic/sexual relationships with one person at a time, so threesomes ect have never appealed to me to begin with.
And since I form strong emotional/romantic feelings for one person and one person only (at a time), I certainly would not want someone watching me (or joining in), that takes away from the intimacy of being alone with the one I love and focusing completly on pleasing them.
however, to me, it doesn't sound like what your friend wants to do is very emotional. sounds purely sexual to me.
If you have feelings for him, I'd say just find someone else. if you are just really horny and want to get with him for the heck of it and you are okay with the idea of someone watching, go for it.
* well if I were in your position, I would not have sex with him. he has a girlfriend, and you having sex with him is only going to make you like him more (if you really do have feelings for him) and put you in more of a pickle. Not to mention, if the mere thought of someone watching you makes you uncomfortable, you're probably not going to be anymore comfortable when it actually happens. you are having gay sex for the first time with a guy you have feelings for while his girlfriend watches. idk it just doesn't seem like a good idea. you would probably have a much better gay experiences in private with a guy that has feelings for you also, but I guess you would have to risk waiting. well if you do decide to do it, try not to get too attached to him. being in love with someone who doesn't love you back sucks reeeeaally bad... and the more intimate you get with them, the harder it is to get over them.
