Straight friend let's me watch him?

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I'm in-the-closet bi, but my straight friend knows this, and he knows I have a crush on him, but he says he's totally straight, and he's not into experimenting.

We were watching tv a few nights ago hanging out at his place and he asked me if I've ever looked at gay porn, and I was honest and told him that's pretty much all I look at lol.  So he asks me why, and what's the fascination with it, and I told him I get really turned on by watching other guys "finish".  We then talked about other things for while, and then he asks if I've ever actually seen another guy "finish" in person, and I said no, not yet.  About 15 minutes later he says "do you wanna watch me?", and I couldn't even answer him.  I just blushed and kept staring to see if he was joking.  He KNOWS I like him.  I've told him that.

5 minutes later he's sitting on the couch and takes his jeans off and asks me what he should do.  I got up and sat on the floor next to the couch and told him to lay down and start rubbing himself, which he did.  After a few minutes I asked if he would take his shirt off too, which he immediately did.  Soon his underwear was off and he was putting on a show and rubbing himself and even playing with his own nipples and stuff.  it was a ridiculous turn on and i actually "finished" just by watching him.  it was crazy.  and then he finished, and we didn't say anything and he got up and cleaned himself up and I left shortly after that.

sorry this is so long.  we didn't talk/text for two days, then he texts and asks if i wanna come over again before he goes out for the night, so i do, and he asks if i want to watch him again, and of course now i say yes, and he puts on another show.

now i can't stop thinking about it, day and night, it replays in my mind constantly.  i want to join in so bad.  is he the biggest tease in history?  How straight could he be if he seems to enjoy me watching him?  why won't he let me "help" him, and why isn't he texting as much as usual?

? · Accepted Answer

Dude, you dudes in general love to be watched, if the massive volume of jerkoff vids on the intertubes means anything.  Seriously, one would think yall can't jerk it if there's not a web cam on.

So every reason to assume he's really into being watched and exhibitionism, especially if he's not into anything more and has stated that on both occasions.  Some people get off to the fact other people get off on them.  He may be an exhibitionist, he may be a little vain, and he's obviously open minded enough to not care that he's interacting sexually with a dude, but sounds like this is him purely getting off by being watched by someone that wants him, not a prelude to actual sex.

Anonymous · Answer

He dont seems to be that straight as he pretends. He seems bisexual maybe but in denial. He may deby that he is gay/bi bcz he wasn't really sure. The next time he asks you before jumping for the opportunity just ask him "Why are you doing all this? Are you gay or at least bi?!"
He may deny it then say "So why are you doing this to lough at me or what?"
Try to found out if he is gay or just teasing you. But if he admits that he is gay/bi then you can go for it and make your dreams come true. 
Hope i helped.

vanessa · Answer

Well there will be a confuse or normal or waiting
confuse is that if you already watch him doing like that and never talk to you again there will be 50% that he is shy to you

normal is that he only saw you as a man he let you watch because he know that you like him but he think that you are joking.

Waiting is that when he always let you watch and he doesnt ask a help it means his waiting for you to ask him.

Hope it help

? · Answer

can you jack off in front of a person then act like nothing happen. I think he is an Exhibitionism, he enjoy people looking at his naked body. see if you get in contact with anyone who had sex with him in the past and they probably will tell you the same thing.

PT, sorry can you put your ages on here, I keep imagining both of you as teenagers?

Anonymous · Answer

Breaking News dude, your buddy isn't str8! He's at least bi. No str8 dude shoots his boy juice in front of another dude like that!

Anonymous · Answer

im sry but that is hot ahah hes probably gay or at lease bi cuz I cant imagine a straight guy letiing his gay friend whatch him finish its just not straight of him

Anonymous · Answer

So you had a *** watching your friend jerk off and ***?Yes you are bi and youre having fun.You want to join in by jerking him off.He might think its alright to jerk off in front of you but if you jerk him off then that would make him gay.Something to think about.

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