My dad said he won't pay for college?

Your dad sounds like an abusive, selfish f*ck. If he took your college fund money and refuses to reimburse it, you can take it to court. I know I would. And your mom can't tell you how to have your relationship with your dad. I would never talk to a parent again if they did that to me, as you have the right to do as well.

The only reason I even agreed to go to college is because my parents are paying. It's hardly worth all the debt with how hard it is to even get a job these days

You seem to be forgetting that your father is most likely the only contributor to your college fund. This is money he earned, he worked for, you didn't! He isnt obligated to pay for your college tuition or anyone elses.. You need to watch the language you use when you post here. Ordinarily I would recommend a post like this to be removed, but since you are a misdirected, misinformed teenager I will just advise instead.

There are student loans, pell grants, scholarships you can apply for to go to college. I highly suggest you get rid of your violent intent and drop your attitude

-Then look into Grants, Scholarships, & Summer Jobs- to help Pay for it. Because if you REALLY Want to Go to College, You'll FIND the Way- to get There ! -Good luck ! :)