Want a boyfriend, but worried about image and weight?

Honey you are FINE! :)

Its okay to be cautious, and honestly it helps weed out the guys that aren't worth the time anyway. You're right to not let guys force themselves into your space.

I used to think I was hyper-independent and needed my space with relationships. I would get really irritated when they wanted to hang out all the time (much like you) and it dawned on me that its probably because I didn't like the guy as much as I thought I did, and ultimately stopped dating like that altogether. If you really like a guy, you'll want to talk to him every day.

But before you really get into dating and relationships, you need to learn to love yourself first. Be comfortable with who you are, and guys will gravitate to that. You seem like a cool girl, you should pick out things you like about yourself and focus on those. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks, its all about what YOU think of YOURSELF. People will come to see you the same way.

And honestly don't worry about 'dying single'. You're only 16, you have a LOT of time to meet Mr. Right and most girls don't find them till they're well out of high school. Either way, its okay to be single. You have to be comfortable being single before you can be comfortable in a relationship, because you have to love yourself before you can really love someone else.

A healthy weight for a female who is 5'3" is between 111 - 147 pounds depending on body frame size. You are in the middle of that range. You are a healthy and normal weight for your height. Which is exactly what most males want. If guys aren't approaching you it's probably not your body that its the issue. It's probably your lack of confidence and comfort in yourself.

5'3 and 125lbs is a really good size! You seem really pretty, but my advice to you is not to rush into a relationship. NEVER go into a relationship insecure, it WON'T work. If you think your a little chubby, start exercising and watching what you eat. I'm shy too! And its hard for me to talk to guys because I get really nervous lol so Idk how to help you with that, just try to figure out why your so shy around them and fix it. I hope you find the right guy.

I'm exactly 6 foot 18 and in college i like a girl with great features and a great personality, the way you described yourself... idk but i'm sure you can find a guy, there's always someone looking for another just as you find yourself at the moment.

P.S - Don't be too hard on yourself.

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just be nice. if they don't like u tell them to **** off. and ur not worth my time