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What do I do?!?!?!? I am an idiot please help!!!!?

So last Thur i was hanging out with some friends and the guy I like and i'm 90% sure he likes me back. Anyways we were having dinner and when we had finished he asked me if he could pay my bill. I told him no but I accidently got a little loud when I said it ( I totally did not mean to!!!) I only said no because I felt bad because we hang out Fri. nights and he always pays for my dinner. I saw him Fri. and he did not offer to pay for me (understandbly) and it was just kinda awkward around him and he wouldn't really talk to me. So I texted him on Sat and said that i was sorry and that I didn't mean it and he never texted me back. Tnen when i saw him on Sun. he randomly goes "are we cool?" and I said yes. So now Idk what I should do. I really like him and now i'm pretty positive he thinks I don't like him. I'm such an idiot I always blow everything.

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  • 7 years ago
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    Text him, and tell him, guys always wish that that they didn't have to guess what woman are thinking... So text him, and explain to him that you felt bad because he always pays and that's why you said no...and maybe even throw in that u really like when a guy steps up and is chivalrous because men like that are hard to come by these days... The best thing you can do in a relationship or the beginning of one, is to be open, honest, and let the other know how you feel and what your thinking, communication is the key to a relationship... If you don't have that in a relationship, you will end up not having a relationship... Good luck and I hope this helps

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  • Cnthia
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    7 years ago

    it wouldn't have hurt you to pay for the bill since he always pays. and who says that the man has to always pay anyway. I have paid for the bill for my friend when we have eaten out and its no big deal. and yes you were wrong. so the next time you two do go out, just offer to go dutch. that's 1/2 & 1/2

  • 7 years ago

    By saying "are we cool?' he wanted to know if you're still friends. Tell him you'd like to make it up by taking him out to lunch sometime, just the two of you.

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  • 7 years ago

    You should ask him why he asked "are we cool?" Maybe then you'll be able to see whatever problem he thinks there is, and you can fix it.

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