Sarah3756

When I was dating my ex boyfriend we would always be stuck at his house bc he was broke so we could never afford to go anywhere and he lived with his family. He was very handsy and liked to touch me a lot in certain areas. If he had had his own place I wouldn’t have minded at all bc I honestly liked it sometimes. The problem is his family is very Christian and his parents forbid us from having any sexual contact. They had caught us doing stuff a few times and asked us to stop so I finally told him we couldn’t do stuff like that anymore at his house. He wouldn’t listen though. Sometimes he would make me go in one of the spare bedrooms when his parents weren’t paying attention and he would shove his hands down my pants and touch me down there and other times he would put his hands down my blouse and rub my nipples. I would tell him to stop bc it made me extremely uncomfortable but he would ignore me and keep doing it and I would let him bc I was afraid he would break up with me if I didn’t let him touch me. (I was really stupid and naive back then and had horrible self esteem so I would’ve done anything to keep him from leaving me) anyway it just always bugged me since we broke up and I always wondered if it was sexual assault or not 

Last year I met this girl. She’s a Bway actress and is always a lead in her shows. So anyway we met bc I went backstage (bc I have friends with connections.) I “knew” her before I saw the show bc I followed her work and I’m a really big fan. But I connect with her on a more personal level bc lots of things in our personal lives are the same. Anyway a lot of things happened between the our first meeting and now and we became close. I would say we are on the verge of becoming actual friends but Idk how to progress in this relationship. I don’t wanna force anything for obvious reasons but it’s also difficult bc obviously I can’t see her in person right now bc of covid and I feel like it would be weird if I send her messages and try to have a normal friendly conversation with her bc I don’t feel like we’re on that level yet (we literally almost are but not quite) I’m just not sure what I should do and like I miss her and wanna see her again and stuff. 

So there’s this girl. We have a complicated relationship. We’re sorta friends (I guess you would say like we’re starting to become close but not 100% fully there yet. If that makes sense.) Anyway I have huge crush on her. But she’s straight and engaged. I would NEVER do anything to sabotage her relationship and even tho I have feelings for her I would rather be friends with her than have a romantic relationship with her. But also I really care about her & want her to be happy. So it’s confusing to me how I’m feeling bc it almost feels like how I felt when I was in love before but it also feels a little different from that too. I just want to know what to call this bc it’s confusing to describe to other people lol. 

So I work with this guy (which I have a crush on) He's really nice to me and he doesn't treat me like my other guy friends who are just friends. For example here are some things he does

. Whenever I come through the door at work he waves at me (he never does that to any of the other girls that work there.).

. He always makes a point to talk to me whenever we work together

. He remembered that I like video games and he talks to me about video games sometimes

. Sometimes I see him staring at me (but I look away when he catches me)

. He smiles at me a lot (again he doesn't do that to any of the other girls)

. One time he asked me if he should shave his beard or leave it

The thing is that I thought he maybe liked me but today he was talking to our co worker and he was telling her that he wants to ask some girl out. She asked him how often does he talk to her or something like that and he said "oh well we don't text everyday because I don't want to be clingy." But me and him don't text each other so now I'm really confused. Also he's only been working there for about 3 months so we don't really know each other so I don't know if he likes me or is just being friendly.

So I work with this guy (which I have a crush on) He's really nice to me and he doesn't treat me like my other guy friends who are just friends. For example here are some things he does

. Whenever I come through the door at work he waves at me (he never does that to any of the other girls that work there.).

. He always makes a point to talk to me whenever we work together

. He remembered that I like video games and he talks to me about video games sometimes

. Sometimes I see him staring at me (but I look away when he catches me)

. He smiles at me a lot (again he doesn't do that to any of the other girls)

The thing is that I thought he maybe liked me but today he was talking to our co worker and he was telling her that he wants to ask some girl out. She asked him how often does he talk to her or something like that and he said "oh well we don't text everyday because I don't want to be clingy." But me and him don't text each other so now I'm really confused. Also he's only been working there for about 3 months so we don't really know each other so I don't know if he likes me or is just being friendly.

I have like 15 freaking questions that I want to delete :(

So I have been dating my bf for two months but we've known each other for a year before that. We are both Christian but his family is very Christan-y. One day I went to church with them and then we went back to his house. I was laying on him in front of his parents and I didnt realize until after the fact that it was inappropriate. Then on valentines day I fell asleep on him in his car and his dad and brother went outside to check on us and they saw us. Now we can't really be alone or else they get weird. we can't cuddle or lean on each other in front of his family or mine because they both dont like it. His older brother is always telling us stuff like that we're getting too close and he doesn't like it when my boyfriend and I sit next to each other. We went bowling for our friend's birthday and his 19 yr old "little" sister shook her head at us because we were holding hands and I had my head leaning on his shoulder. And his other older brother (the one who saw us sleeping on each other) had a "talk" with him about boundaries which I think was unnecessary because both of our parents had talks with us after they found out we were laying on each other. By the way i'm 22 and he's 21. We have never had sex (because we're waiting for marrige) and all we do is hold hands and sometimes cuddle and kiss (not make out) and it sucks because we can't even be ourselves at his house or mine. What should I do?

So I'm friends with a married couple. They are super sweet and they always drive me like everywhere and they never make me pay for gas. Plus we sometimes go out to eat when we are hanging out and they would always pay for me and I wouldn't have to pay them back ( because I didn't have a job but now I do. I am not a moocher.) anyways that's why I wanna get them all this stuff. I got for the guy two lighters and a pack of six mini flashlights (he likes that stuff.) and for the girl I'm getting her a build a bear that she really wants and I'll have to pay at least 55.00 probably a little more because I can only get it on eBay. I also wanted to get them two gift cards to two restaurants that they like but I haven't decided on that yet. Anyways is that too much? My parents say is but I really want to do it for them because of what I mentioned up above.

Ok so I have this friend. I know for a fact he doesn't like me because I know the girl he likes. Anyways a few weeks ago what happened was I told him in a round about way that I liked him. After that we were eating at Denny's (cause we always go there with our friends) and he said he doesn't like girls with earrings but he has to take them cause they're the only ones he can get ( I was wearing earrings.) The week after that he ignored me. Then he threw it in my face because my friend always pays for me whenever we hang out because I don't have a job and no money and he threw that in my face. Now mind you I haven't done anything to him at all. Anyways now recently over the past like 3 weeks he has been acting really flirty with me. First me and all my friends were at our friend's house for a movie marathon and he was there. He started leaning on me and touching me a hella lot. Then the next day he asked me to the movies. Then last week and this week he was touching me a lot like he hugged me from behind and he grabbed my arm and he was just being flirty. I am soooo confused because I know he likes this one other girl and he was being mean to me a few weeks before and so I don't know why he's started being so nice all of a sudden. Why is he being like this?

So my guy friend texted me last night and told me he was getting drunk for his 21. Anyway he told me that I was beautiful and gorgeous and that he likes me and he said I love you for always and forever and he sent me like a million heart emojis and kissy faces (no lie!!) I felt awkward and didn't know what to do because I don't like him that way and we don't really know each other that good but anyways I stupidly sent him a few heart emojis back. But now Idk wat to do because I don't like him like that. What do I do?

So I haven't seen one of my guy friends in like almost two months. Whenever I see him we usually talk a lot. Anyways I texted him and said hey I miss u. Is that weird or no?

So i'm really confused if my friend likes me. Sometimes he'll do things that make me think he likes me then other times he'll act like he only likes me as a friend. Some things he does to make me think he likes me are that he always initiates the conversation whenever we hang out, he will sometimes touch me (he likes to warm my hands and play with my hands and my hair), he likes to pay for my food all the time (we hang out with other friends every Friday night and we always eat at Denny's), and one night when we were at Denny's me, him, and two other friends were talking about stuff and he randomly goes "did you want to be more than friends?" than like 5 seconds later goes "no i'm just kidding." The thing is he makes no effort to be around me. For example I haven't seen him in over a month and he made no effort to contact me. I ended up going to his house because I am friends with his sister and when i got there he acted really weird and only talked to me for like 5 min. and then he went and stayed in his room. He hardly texts me (idk if that's bad) but when he does he's always the one to text 1st. He has asked me bowling once and to the movies 3 times but all those times he either brought his bro or sister with us so I guess they weren't really considered dates. I think he might have done that though because he's kinda shy and once when we were at the movies he told me he was nervous. Anyways does he like me and he's just shy or he doesn't like me at all?

He confuses me so much. He asked me to hang out 4 times but whenever we do he'll always bring one of his siblings or some friends because he gets nervous (he told me this at the movies.) Anyways we've gone to the movies 3 weeks in a row and the 1st week he kinda made a jerk move because he also invited our friend who I think he also might like. They were mostly talking so me and him hardly talked. Then when he was taking us home he asked if he could be one of her models (she's going to school to cut hair.) He has flirted with her before in front of me and he took her out to dinner before (but he brought his siblings too.) But the thing is he also flirts with me. He has told me that I looked nice a bunch of times, that I have nice eyes, he has a nickname for me, and teases me for being short. Plus he likes to touch me a lot. Also he works with my dad and my dad says he asks about me sometimes. He doesn't do all that with her like the only thing he does is tease her for being lactose intolerant. And it seems like he likes to give her rides to places but not me. By the way he's NOT a player because honestly he's way to shy for that and he's a sweet Christian guy. So why would he do all that stuff if he likes her?

Ok so first off I have Asperger's syndrome and I'm female. Second l really like my friend and I have a feeling he might like me as well. So anyways I feel like he thinks I'm not interested in him because it's kinda weird when we talk because sometimes I'm not sure how to respond to him. So I basically have no clue whatsoever how to start a conversation and I'm not really good at keeping them going either. He thinks I'm not paying attention to me whenever he talks to me (he told me that) and it kind of seems like I'm not very opinion oriented because I'll usually just say "I don't care" or I'll agree with whatever he says because I get nervous and embarrassed. And I have no clue how to flirt or show him I like him. I have tried in the past with other guys and I only came across as creepy and scared them haha. So anyways any help would be appreciated. I'm 21 so it's kind of important as conversating and flirting are things that "normal" people my age are expected to know how to do.

Ok so I really like my friend and I think he likes me too. He always does things like initiates our conversations and he asked me to go bowling with him a few weeks ago so I did. Anyways I am pretty sure he doesn't know that I like him. I was talking to him on Friday night and he said "half of the time I don't even know if you're even listening or paying attention when I'm talking to you." I'm not really good at having conversations as in I have no clue whatsoever how to start them or keep them going without there being awkward silences in between. I have autism so I am extremely socially awkward and have no clue how to flirt and I have tried before with different guys but I just came across as creepy and freaked them out. I really need help cause I really like this guy and I feel he likes me too but I have no Idea how to show I'm interested in him. Oh and I don't want to just flat out tell him just in cause he doesn't like me but I'm pretty sure he does.

My friend (who I really like) asked me to go bowling with him on Sat. His sister also went with us but he paid for like everything (the bowling and we got food and he paid for that too.) I think he likes me and also he was teasing me and touching me a lot when we were bowling. So was it a date or what?

So I really like my friend. I'm 90% sure he likes me as well but he's making me feel really confused. I feel like he likes me but I also feel like he likes our mutual friend too. Anyways here's the reasons I think he could possibly like me:

-He sometimes will pay for my dinner

-He likes talking to me

-He has a nickname for me

-He touches me sometimes (i.e. he's squeezed my arm and played with my fingers before)

-He teases me for being short

-He's told me I looked nice a couple of times

-He invited me to this business meeting thing for his work, to the movies, and to a water park

-He asked for my number and he's randomly texted me a few times for no reason

-He asked me if I had a boyfriend and if I've been on a lot of dates

But these are the reasons I think he might like our friend:

-He teases her for being lactose intolerant

-He likes talking to her as well

-He also invited her to his meeting thing for work and to the movies

-He has her number

-last week we were all hanging out and she was kinda sick and almost threw up so he was comforting her and asking if she was alright and he put his arm around her

I asked his sister-in-law if she knew if he liked me and she said she didn't but that she can tell that he clicks with me and she said he doesn't click with just anyone. But it's confusing because I don't understand why he acts like that with our friend if does like me. Help me please!!!! What do I do? P.S. sorry for the long question!!!

Ok so I'm pretty sure my friend likes me because he has shown a lot of signs. Anyways we and the rest of our friends were hanging out on Friday. There's this other girl that he might also like but i'm not sure. Anyways we were at Denny's and i was sitting between my friend (who by the way I like) and the girl. He kind of kept leaning over me to talk to her and stuff. Then later on the girl started to not feel that good and like she almost puked at the table. My friend was like comforting her and stuff like he put his hand on her shoulder and he was like "are you alright?" and stuff like that. And when she went to the restroom to try and puke he paid for her dinner. But anyways I'm confused because at the table he was staring at me I guess because my crush said to the girl "why are you staring at me?" and the girl was all "I thought you were staring at me" and my crush said "actually I was staring at her (meaning me)" and also when we were leaving Denny's he asked me if I would like to go to a water park with him and he didn't invite the girl. So i'm a little confused because he does stuff like this all the time. like he'll sort of flirt with the girl and then he'll do something like invite me to something and plus there's other stuff that he only just does to me and not the other girl so it's confusing.

Sorry for the long question. Anyways I think my friend likes me maybe. I see him Friday nights at bible study. Well anyway last week when i got there he wouldn't talk to me at 1st. Then a little while later he was going to go to McDonald's (it's like right next door to our church) and he asked if anyone wanted to come with him so i said i'd go. Then he asks me "why'd you come with me?" so i said because I was bored. Then he's like "oh I thought u might want something." so he ended up buying me a milkshake. But like almost the whole night he was talking to this other girl. But he had put his hat on me and I wore it the whole night and then he paid for my dinner cause our whole group goes after bible study. So then this week before study we are sitting on the couch next to each other. Our other friend Preston brought some cookies and he put them on the table. Then my crush randomly goes "come on boo lets get some cookies." It was like he made a nickname for me and it accidentally slipped out because he doesn't normally call me that. Then like the whole night he was talking to the same girl as before. Then I was riding with him to dinner and he said "so Sarah I've been trying to think of a nickname for you that I can call you." And then during dinner he somewhat talked to me mostly he was talking to the other girl. But it was kinda confusing cause during dinner he started to play with my hand. Also he paid for my dinner again. He might sound like a player but he's not like that he's actually a sweet guy and doesn't flirt with like every girl. So was he trying to make me jealous or what.

So last Thur i was hanging out with some friends and the guy I like and i'm 90% sure he likes me back. Anyways we were having dinner and when we had finished he asked me if he could pay my bill. I told him no but I accidently got a little loud when I said it ( I totally did not mean to!!!) I only said no because I felt bad because we hang out Fri. nights and he always pays for my dinner. I saw him Fri. and he did not offer to pay for me (understandbly) and it was just kinda awkward around him and he wouldn't really talk to me. So I texted him on Sat and said that i was sorry and that I didn't mean it and he never texted me back. Tnen when i saw him on Sun. he randomly goes "are we cool?" and I said yes. So now Idk what I should do. I really like him and now i'm pretty positive he thinks I don't like him. I'm such an idiot I always blow everything.