My boyfriend's family is butting into our relationship?

I think that you already know that laying on your boyfriend in his parents home was not only inappropriate, but also disrespectful. And then, you got caught a second time sleeping on him in his car. You know how strong their faith and beliefs are. And now there is not one member of the family that trusts you when you two are alone, or when you get to close to each other. I understand it’s hard for you to accept that they are butting in your relationship. But they won’t stop until you get married. That’s if you two do get married. Try to put yourself in their shoes. They are afraid that you would end up having sex, and they are probably scared that you will get pregnant. It would be an embarrassment to the family especially in front of the church members. I think you both should talk to his parents. You need to reassure them that you don’t have any intentions of having sex. Tell them how important it is for you to wait until marriage. If you kiss and cuddle in front of them then, you need to stop if that bothers them. They don’t need to see that. I know you have known each other for a year before you started to date. But you have only been in a relationship for two months. Their parents probably think that you guys are moving too fast. But whatever the case is, or why they are all watching you like hawks, it needs to stop. It will only stop when you can reassure them that you have no intention of having sex. It’s up to you and your boyfriend to fix this. If you want your boyfriend’s parents to trust you while you are alone with their son then, you need to get on their good side.

I hate to say this but there's not much you can do regarding your parents or his,that's the way they are around you guys so make the exception to be discrete when your around them.I'd like to say they'll be different once you're both married though that's uncertain.I don't know if you're still both living with your parents? Don't let your parents or his control your relationship,they have no right to tell you what you can and cannot do with your partner.they can advice you but they cannot force you unless your under their roof of course.Perhaps spend less time each others parents,that's all I can advice and maybe move away from the parents,It's only temporary right so just sit it out,best of luck x

At your age, you both can do as you like, but do not expect your families to approve. When the 2 of you are falling sleep together and laying on top of each other, that looks like 1 step from sex to everyone else and they would like you to slow things down. This has not got much to do with Christianity, and a lot more to do with family expectations

Stay away from them. They are nosy and jealous. They will annoy you and your boyfriend.