Help! My wife has been lying to me from day 1 i just found out.:(?

You need to review on what is the cause. Is she doing it because you did too? Is she emotionally involve with someone in a way she never complain any of her problem to you as if she doesn't need your emotional support and attention listener. Was she made mistake by marrying you but in love with another earlier in the relationship? After considering all that you need to think for the sake of children if you have any. If you do not have any children, just divorce her. Once being cheated on it will never be the same again because you can NEVER forget it.

It really depends on what your wife lies about & if it's interfering with the marriage. U need 2 communicate with your wife so yous can understand each other. Yous need 2 literally LISTEN 2 one another when talking so you'll know what is needed, want, desire, how 2 & the sort.

There's need 2 B trust N the marriage, honest, inform each other of things & communicate on every level. Your wife need 2 know she CAN communicate with U in A good way. Yous need 2 B alone, quiet N room, calm, low voice with understanding. Ask questions & get 2 the core of things.

She could have Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( research this), mostly men have this, but women can have it as well, also look up "GasLighting" while your at it. If she does have this there is no cure so my suggestion would be to end the relationship unless you want to be lied to all your life. She could be a chronic liar if this is the case seek therapy and find out if there is even a cure. If there isn't RUN don't walk away.

"everything". Well, that's game over really. Divorce.

Given your complete inability to pick on issues until it's way way too late, I would suggest avoiding any serious relationship for a long time.

I guess it depends upon what she's been lying to you about and how important it is to you. If you really, really love her you may choose to forgive her but it she keeps lying about big stuff then, you might want to take a look and see if it is affecting your relationship in such a way it can't continue.

you didn't give many details but if I was lied to for years I would get divorced. Gross you slept with and married a lying stranger.

You now know that you cant trust her. You have to make a choice whether or not to try and work your problems out with her. That decision is yours and yours only

Forgive,forget.. People make mistake. She does it again adios.

She lied divorce her

I am sorry:( I am going through the same...If you see my questions.