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How long does love take?

I've been with my bf for 5 months and nothing, but he wants to move in together and always talks about the future but my point is, why move if he doesn't love me?

I'm 22 and he's 35 so I don't know if age difference is why he's not saying it or why I want to hear it. I finally said it on Christmas because I've honestly felt like he's the one the first week we dated, but he said "no you don't not yet you're just excited because the holiday".

Last week it came up again asking if he still loved his ex after 7 year relationship and he said the only person he loves is his son and himself.

Should I be upset that he still doesn't love me? And should I not move in until he does ? How much longer do I wait

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    honestly, after a year if he still comes around.. he's in love but he might not be able to tell yet.

    In one year.. take a 3 week holiday and see his reaction. But tell him of course.. then he will know if yes or No.

    it works on me. im slow to love too

  • 7 years ago

    Love is love & age ain't nothing bout a number , think hard about that & vote me for best answer :)

  • 7 years ago

    maybe he is just not sure whether to say it or not. just say "I love you" to him and see how he replies

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