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Im gonna let you in on a little secret....?

The best way to make a connection, or bond with someone is not sharing of common likes. Its the sharing of common dislikes. For example....if you meet a girl and you want to connect with her, try to find something in common you both dislike. Two people that both dislike Obama, will have a stronger bond than two people that both like Obama. Furthermore, the depth of the connection will depend on how unlikely the commonality runs. If you both dislike rain..thats pretty common. But if you both dislike pizza, or bill o'reilly, that could be significant.

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  • 7 years ago
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    not always here is a bigger secret. guys send out invisible signals that are only read by females.

    if you are trying to fake it till you make it, she will see right through you. and you will still be single.

    if you don't have any self confidence you wont be getting anywhere. also self esteem. if you also make yourself approachable that also helps

  • 7 years ago

    those are decent points

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