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Aries want to be friends again with a Libra man?

I'm a Aries friend with a Libra man, it about his ex-gf broke up 10/1/13 and friendship 2/20/13. He mails the ex money all at once $4000.00 and $500.00 separate times, because he still loves the ex. The ex didn't even say thanks just takes. He keeps wanting to be friends with the ex. She doesn't want to be friends. He keeps giving her money for birthdays and Christmas. I keep telling him she is not a friend. I try to help him to get over his ex. I say everything opposite that he say good about the ex. example she must like me. She doesn't like you. He told me if I keep talking about his ex. I will be his ex friend, that got me real mad. I told him off, by saying he don't use the friendship as a threat or warning. He is ignoring me since 2/7/14. He say that I told him off, when he was the one that did the threat and warning. I just want to be friends again. I told him sorry, but really think he started it, what do you think and/ or what can I do to get back that friendship. thx all

Update:

I'm an Aries women

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  • 7 years ago
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    Oh man ... there are a lot of numbers in there. Look, your friend can't be forced into getting over his ex. That is his journey and he just needs to be heard. If it gets annoying to be around him because he is living in a fantasy world, I understand. But then take space away from him and only hang around him when you can be a source of support. Friends do need friend who will tell them when they are acting foolishly, but they need to hear it in a spirit of love not criticism. Your heart sounds like it is in the right place -- but it is still coming across as criticism. For someone going through a painful breakup -- there's only so much "negativity" they can take. You don't need to agree with what he's doing -- but if you can't get neutral about it after having said your piece/peace -- than take space for both of your own good. He is not ready to listen to logic -- so it doesn't matter how "right" you are and how "wrong" his ex is. The heart has its own time table and funny way of healing itself -- it's not your job to "fix him" not matter how well-intended. Let him be and send him love no matter what. If it's a true friendship, you guys will come back together in time. It's no one's fault.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    The two are opposite signs and make up for each others shortcomings. Aries being decisive can be good for Libra who is indecisive, but over the long run, Libra wont get the quite life they want cos Aries is angry type that can sometimes only get things done by having a confrontation rather than talk it out camly like Libra. In the long run, are you Libras willing to put up with this?

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Libra men and Aries women are no compatible.

    Aries women are too strong for Libra's temparment.

    Aries is better compatible with Gemini and Aquarius.

    Libra is more compatible with Sagittarius and Leo

    Source(s): Sun Sag/Moon Aqua/Rising Gemini
  • 7 years ago

    Try it out again.

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