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so i'm a geeky nice guy, looking for love, and seems to come off as just a "nice guy"?
ok so let me say a little bit about me. basically i'm a little bit of a geek in everything. science history and yes, video games. I don't dress like steve urkel or like any of the guys on the big bang theory, so don't assume a certain look. also i don't walk around everywhere playing on a gameboy ds (seriously people do that here at my college!). i have a small number of friends, most of them tend to be geeks also in a sense, though in wildly different ways, take the word geek as you like.
i try to be nice and compassionate to everyone, get to know everyone by at least a first name basis even if i can only count my good friends on my fingers.
i'm pretty bad at small talk typically.
i'd never cheat or play behind a girls back, i've lost a friend recently because he did exactly that to my two friends.
i'm a terrible flirt.
i don't have much experience dating.
my interest are narrow, i'm trying to find out how i can talk to some people who have nothing in common so well with, but not other.
I guess i just wants to basic advice on maybe flirting or getting a girl to see that i'm a really nice guy, that you would want to date also.
i really appreciate it.
1 Answer
- 7 years ago
Honestly just be yourself and the right person will find you. When your talking to a girl just be casual and act how you would towards a good friend. That's how you start to build a relationship is by starting off first with friendship and getting to know the person. With friendship theirs no pressure on trying to impress someone or worrying about if your doing something right or wrong. They should like you for how you are. :) And with talking to people who have nothing in common with your interests think of this: FOOD MOVIES MUSIC Everyone has there favorite foods. Everyone has their favorite moves and music. So there is the three common interests everyone has to start off with. And then you can build conversations from there. ^_^ Not to mention if you find someone who likes the same video games you do.. Instant awesome friendship lol.
Flirting is pretty easy and simple really. All you need to do is make little compliments and make the girl feel special." You have a cute smile"" Awe your adorable when you blush". Maybe make some cute little jokes about her interests or likes. I'm sure you'll get the hang of it.
You seem like an awesome guy! Good Luck I'm cheering for ya. :)