Libra man to forgive a Aries women, HELP!!!!?

If you want to use astrology, you will be misled if all you use is the person's Sun sign.

Sure, that approach sells well to the public and writers make money off it .. but that's all it's good for.

To get benefit from astrology, you have to use the timed birthchart for an individual, a map of the sky done for the day-month-year, hour-minute, and longitude-latitude of birth (computer progams will convert the city-state-country into long/lat.). This birthchart gives you approximately 40 factors to work with .. and the Sun sign is only 6% of the entire chart. And not even that part of the chart that deals with emotions or relationship needs/behaviors. Sun NEVER helps in questions regarding emotions or relationships.

Sun represents how we relate to ourselves .. the way in which we set up our life so that WE like OURSELVES. It has nothing to do with your question.

As for the rest of your question:

1) Don't tell people off. You can never undo what you have said. "Sorry" never brings someone around, although not saying "sorry" can keep someone away.

2) Whether or not someone forgives you is out of your hands entirely .. you have no control, or even influence, over being forgiven.

3) Don't try to help people do their own psychological work. We mean well, but it's "enmeshment", which is psychologically healthy and indicates a poor understanding of the healthy "boundaries" that allow a relationship (be it friend, co-worker, or spouse) to flourish. Since we have no control over what goes on inside others, we cannot help them. Unless, by "helping him" you mean that he has no car and you were driving him to therapy sessions .. or that he was broke and you were paying for his therapy.

That's about as much as you can realistically do to "help" someone else get over a breakup.

4) If someone threatens to stop being your friend ... good riddance. People with relationship skills do not go around making threats. No wonder his girlfriend is an ex. If you became his next girlfriend, you would also become his next "ex" too.

For that matter, telling people off is no great shakes either. There are times when it is best to keep our mouth shut until after we have cooled down, figure out what the actual underlying problem is, and how to best-address the problem.

5) If you have healthy self-esteem, you will not bother with someone who gives you threats. This is NOT what friends do, and he lacks the relationship skills to make a love-relationship work. If you can't let go and move on, go talk to a therapist about why you lack self-esteem.

it's been since 1/13/14 to 2/24/014 and still going strong. He hasn't forgave. I don't think he ever will, will have to move on. Aries women friend with a Libra man.

You still trying to get back with this guy?

You posted this question already. Move on. Obviously he isnt interested in having you as a friend or anything else.

How about this way.

When you get a chance to talk.

I assume what you meant by 56\and 55.

was your age.

How about you explain your point of view

and try to understand his.

And close with speech about growing up

Nobody lives forever, and time is a precious thing.

There are no refunds or returns on time lost.