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I like this girl but I have Genital Warts what should I do?

I have white itchy spots on my penis tested negative for herpes and aids so thank god for that. Dr told me that HPV "clears " from the body in 1 - 2 years time but I'm still contagious even with no warts and even if I use a Condom.

My options where pretty much :

Infect a girl

or

Abstinence

I chose the latter of course.but...

I really like this girl in my university. She seems to like me too but I constantly reject her and try to avoid her like the plague( to try and not do something stupid)

Her Friend came to me asking me why I sudently avoid her which I never answered so she told me she keeps crying about it which really bothers me.

I WON'T Disclose my STATUS to ANYONE because I feel ashamed to be a walking HPV infection. So what can I do? Like I said disclosing status or Being with her and not telling her are not options.

Update:

I'm asking what should I tell her because I Stopped talking to her all of a sudden and I upset her. And No I won't be with anyone ever I stated that clearly

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  • 7 years ago

    If you don't want to date her because you have HPV, then you could just say that you're avoiding her because you don't like her. You don't have to elaborate much beyond that.

    Although you're being stupid about this whole thing. There's a vaccine that can prevent the common types of HPV. So depending on which type you have, you might not be able to infect her anyway.

    Plus, HPV's symptoms aren't serious, and it's very common. And before the vaccine, it was estimated that 75-80% of people got HPV. It's not a big deal. It's like a cold. What you're doing is like ruining years of your life because you're too ashamed to admit that you have a cold.

  • 7 years ago

    I really feel bad for you because I also had HPV but I was lucky enough not to get warts. I had a biopsy done a few years ago and that was the end of it. My husband knew when I had it but it wasn't a big deal to him. Since my situation was very different from yours, I would advise to not tell her. I know it's really hard for you to see her upset so maybe you could just be friends. When you come to a point that you can trust her, then maybe you can tell. I still would be very careful if you don't want a lot of people to know. I know it's hard for people to keep secrets. Your other option would be to continue to ignore her even though it makes her upset. She will get over it in time so you should try to not let it get to you if your reputation is really important to you. I'm really sorry you're going through this. One mistake can really screw you over.

  • 7 years ago

    Don't tell her. It'll go away.

  • 7 years ago

    Be with her. Nothing will probably happen (sexually) so you shouldn't have to worry about that. If you do have that situation come up where she wants to you can always say you want to wait, or that your waiting for marriage, something like that.

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