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Is this a good or weird situation to buy flowers?
Ok here's a slight situation I just want to know whether this would be considered normal or a complete no no.
I'm leaving my current job and there is a female work colleague who's always been there for me and supported me; especially when having a difficult time. I just wanted to buy her a very small bunch of flowers as a kind gesture to say thank you for being there and being supportive. She does have a boyfriend but I completely understand and respect that fact. I wouldn't ever try to advance on someone already in a relationship and she is aware of that. But I accidentally mentioned the idea to my mates when I've had a few drinks and they think I'm crazy. What do you think?
Many thanks to all answerers :)
4 Answers
- ?Lv 67 years ago
Flowers are often seen as a romantic gift coming from a man. However, it really depends how close you guys are. I mean, if you guys are really good friends, and you are absolutely certain that she knows that you are not interested in her romantically, flowers could be a very nice gesture. Obviously do not get roses though. Get "friendly" flowers, not romantic ones. Stick to colors like yellow, blue, and white. However, if there is a chance that she may think it was a romantic gesture, I would advise against it. But you could easily sway her away from those thoughts if you include a note explaining the reasoning for your gift. For example, say "This is a thanks for helping me out in my difficult times. etc, etc..." Just keep it light hearted and not too serious.
So really, it could go either way. Just consider your relationship with her, you'd be the best judge to predict whether she thinks it's appropriate or not. Follow your gut, it's usually right.
- 7 years ago
I think sending her flowers would be a little weird just tell her how you feel that you are grateful for all she has done for you and that she was there for you.
Anyway, hope this helps! Good luck!😀
- 7 years ago
If she has a boyfriend do not and I repeat do no send her flowers or give them to her. It might seem like a nice thing to do and shows her that you know how supportive she was. Most boyfriends would consider you giving her flowers a "slap in the face to him". Consider that maybe he never gave her flowers. Give her a nice card and an appointment book or something. Just don't ask for trouble.
Source(s): experience - Anonymous7 years ago
If you two are serious friends and have been there for each other I reckon It's a lovelly idea!
Obviously, we don't really know the situation - If it feels right, do it! :)
