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I'm self concius about being skinny, no girls like me, advice please?

I'm 25 and I'm 118 at 5'9" VERY skinny. I feel that being skinny kills my chances with girls I know in the US A lot of girls tend to like the skinny guys since I noticed american girls give me more attention, hell most my girlfriends where american here living or on vacation.

This is Puerto Rico here skinny guys are not attractive at all. Only muscle boys. I'm working on trying to build muscle at the gym with proper nutrition but this will take years obiously. While I work on this I feel really down on myself. I just plain don't like myself.

I never even try to ask girls out anymore. I really don't know how to improve or cope with these feelings can anyone please give me some advice.

PD: saying "just accept yourself" is not advice thanks

Update:

over here LOOKS do matter and they are pretty much the only thing that matter you never see that hot girl ugly dude thing here. AMERICAN girls like skinny guys

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  • 7 years ago

    I wont tell you to accept yourself because that is your choice and honestly if youre not happy with yourself you shouldnt accept yourself. What I mean is that you know you could improve. Do you eat a lot? If you dont, start eating but make sure it's healthy. If you are eating then keep at it. You may just have high motabolism my friend:) anyways, have confidence in yourself. Actually, a lot of U.S.A girls like guys with some meat on them, not too skinny:) but just set goals and take it one step at a time:)

    Source(s): Life
  • 7 years ago

    I'm really tempted to say 'accept yourself ' but I'm a bit nicer than that. If you truly are self conscious about being skinny. Just change it. Go do the gym thingy. You'll meet someone who likes you for you one day. Oh Goodness I shouldn't have said that It makes me sound old. Have a good day, Hun. Hope everything works out!

  • 7 years ago

    Three things that you can benefit from. 1. Eat lots of healthy meals which contains a lot of calories. 2. Hit the gym. 3. Be confident.

  • 7 years ago

    As I know most of the muscular guys likes skinny girls ya... comeon cheer up.. dont be upset.. you will definitely find a handsome muscular guy.. trust me... even im a muscular guy I love skinny girls. .. so it depends.. dont think much buddy just be patient until you get the correct person. At the same time keep on working out..go for a jim. Eat hight protein food..

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Confidence is most important. Be yourself and I'm sure not EVERY girl likes a muscle guy

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Trust me, physical appearance is the least that matters, if you want to find a good girl give it time and she'll like you for your personality, nothing else really matters

  • 7 years ago

    Just accept yourself

  • 7 years ago

    If they're worth dating they won't care if you're not muscular...and I find skinny guys pretty hot...

    Source(s): I'm american
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