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Talk about your Ex to your boyfriend.?

I had lunch with my fiancee today. Towards the end of the meal she brought up that her Ex will be sending flowers to her mother from his job because his dad died and he didn't want them him self. Then did continued to tell me about his bad history with his dad to me.

Needless to say my attention waned suddenly and frankly ruined the mood for me. I have said in the past I did not enjoy him being brought up and on a personal note I believe their so called friendship isn't proper. This being just my opinion, I simply don't enjoy talking about a guy that once saw the woman I love naked and shared her carnal pleasures. I don't know, just call me old fashion I guess.

Anyhow am I over reacting?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    not at all..

    you have every right to feel the way you are feeling..

    and your woman should stop talking to her ex boyfriend.. especially when she is engaged... thats just not appropriate anymore..

    i wouldn't marry her until she cuts off all communication with him

    my boyfriend was talking to his ex in the beginning of our relationship.. turns out she was trying to get back with him.. and i trust him but i told him he needed to stop talking to her in order to be with me.. yes it might sound crazy to others but i needed that security and he cared so much about me and my feelings he stopped and even took her off his facebook.... he also told her he found a new love and maybe they can be friends in the future when he is just married.. but even then...

    its just not right..

    when your married.. your best friend of the opposite sex should be your husband or wife..

    im old fashioned and thats how is should be.. the world will try and say thats crazy and just not realistic but the truth of the matter is... is that temptation is so prominent and you have to be very careful.. talking to your ex is like playing with fire....

    maybe in the future when they're really isn't feelings but certainly not when your engaged.

    i would slow things down if she refusing to end contact with him...

    better safe than sorry.

    good luck.

    Source(s): 24 year old female..
  • 7 years ago

    No, that's your fiancée. Nobody wants to hear their special someone talk about their ex. But honestly in my all honest opinion I'd be careful marrying her. Doesn't sound like she's over him.

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