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How do I know if a guy wants me to be his long term girlfriend?

We have been dating for about a month. He holds my hand and kisses me in public, but he has an extremely promiscuous past. I told him I want to remain a virgin until I get married. At first he seemed supportive, but now it seems he's trying to get me to change my mind. I'm just afraid he'll start to blow me off once he realizes he won't get any further. We are both 22 years old.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If he does blow you off then good! You don't need a guy in your life who can't support you 100 percent with major life decisions (letting someone enter you body is a major life decision). Do let go of something so important for a guy who doesn't care.

    I'm a girl trying to keep my virginity too! I find that in doing so, I am able to fend away all the crappy guys!

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    What do you really want with this guy????

    to be his girlfriend for years or marry him????

    Don't say you are too young thats merely avoiding the issue

    he only wants sex if he wanted more he would respect your wishes and not, push you

    add to that he is too young and immature for you

    end it now clean and forever find someone a lot more mature who really likes you and will respect your wishes (its automatic if he does care)

  • 7 years ago

    I'm sensing you're a Christian? If you are, he should be too. Anyway, if he forces you to have sex, don't do it. If he really loves you, he'll understand and be patient and wait for the right time

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