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I can't deal with this break up?
I broke up with my girlfriend about a week or 2 ago! Obviously I didn't take it well as you'd expect, I was very very upset, felt so cold and didn't know what to say or do. Anyway I tried not contacting her, thinking oh I'll leave it a few days and she'll come to me... A week went by and nothing come, in the end it was too much, I gave up and called her... We talked and she said she thinks we should both move on with our lives, that killed me... But I tried to forget it and get on with things, then I went on her Facebook profile and saw she'd added her ex back:/ all I can think about is what she will be doing, what I'll miss out on, who she's with, what sort of photos she'll put up on her profile now she is single... I stopped following her on Facebook so her updates didn't come on my news feed but all I keep doing is going on her profile, I don't want to because I might see something that I don't like but I just do it anyway and I don't know why... I completely admit that there's something wrong but I don't know what... This is my first ever gf and we were together 10 months. I'm just really broken, she was the one who finished it and did wrong and now she doesn't even want to talks to me:(
Serious advice is needed as it's driving me insane! No hate but thank you for any support I greatly appreciate it.
Thanks.
3 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
I think she thinks its for the best. I know what your going through stay offline for a while let your heart rest call a mate go out have a bit of fun delete her of facebook loose all contact with her give yourself time to heal away from her go out have fun meet friends.your not ready for any other relationship now and probably wont for long time. This was your first relationship but your only young your going to have many more let go of her delete her number delete the photos the old conversations have one night where you think of it all relive everything cry and miss her and grieve after that move on in anyway you can. Get out more even just go for a walk stay away from the sad music or stuff that makes you think of her just its going to take a while but be strong there will be many more relationships and take this as an experiment dont let yourself love so quick in the future and just get on with life.... im really sorry :((
- 7 years ago
Well my advice would be maybe to move on. Things do happen for a reason and if ye are meant to be together ye will. You should go out more, take more photos, post them on your Facebook and let her know what she's missing too!! It will help you feel better and maybe you'll meet other girls that way!!
Hope this helped :)
- Anonymous7 years ago
Stop going to her profile cause you are simply torturing yourself. Do things to keep your mind off her (I know it's easier said that done, been thru there.) Give time to heal yourself and eventually you'll feel better.
Source(s): Been there and done that
