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I was driving home on a motorway which was running variable speed limit cameras, as I approached the lines there was a car in front who was at the middle of them, the camera double flashed as I was probably 8-10 inches into the lines, was that flashed at me or him? I checked and was doing 65 when I started but quickly braked to 60 as I went over the lines as the limit said 60

I vestarted driving in July 2015, I had 2 years no claims and in July 2017 I renewed my policy for another year. However 2 months later in September I cancelled it as I bought a new car and went with a different insurer, but I had my car modified in January 2018 and was forced to get another insurer as my original wouldn t insure me.

My question is will I have 3 years no claims seen as it s been 3 years where I ve been insured and not made a claim? Or will I have to wait until I ve been with my current insurer for a year before I get that 3rd year no claim ( January 2019 ).

Any help is appreciated.

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago. I've just recently met her for the first time after the break up. Everything went surprisingly well, we got on just as well as we used to, not awkward at all and it's like we hadn't been away. She brought our relationship up and we basically spoke about what went wrong... I told her that I was sorry for what I did wrong, that I was immature and didn't mean to hurt her feelings when I genuinely didn't, I love her to bits...

Anyway she is saying part of her wants me back and wana to sort this out because she loves me, but the other half doesn't because she's heard me say it'd be different next time and she's struggling to believe it... I really want her back but to he honest I can't show her it's different and I'm different without being with her...

Any advice, thanks in advance

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago. I've just recently met her for the first time after the break up. Everything went surprisingly well, we got on just as well as we used to, not awkward at all and it's like we hadn't been away. She brought our relationship up and we basically spoke about what went wrong... I told her that I was sorry for what I did wrong, that I was immature and didn't mean to hurt her feelings when I genuinely didn't, I love her to bits...

Anyway she is saying part of her wants me back and wana to sort this out because she loves me, but the other half doesn't because she's heard me say it'd be different next time and she's struggling to believe it... I really want her back but to he honest I can't show her it's different and I'm different without being with her...

Any advice, thanks in advance

I'm meeting up with my ex in a few days for the first time since the break up which was a month and a half ago. We've spoke on the phone and resolved our issues, both agreed to the fact we both made a few mistakes, she has said she misses me and that most of her wants me back... The only thing that's stopping her is she's worried about wether she'll look at me and feel the same after it's been soo long since we've seen each other...

I've played it cool, kept conversations short and been nice, and the vibes I'm getting are that we still connect and get on like a house on fire, no awkward situations or silences. Like she is, I'm also a bit worried and nervous about seeing her face to face after so long, wether I'll look at her and feel everything I use to, we were together for a year and a half...

Does anyone have any advice on things I can sort of do to remind her of the old days so to speak?

Any advice is appreciated

I'm meeting up with my ex in a few days for the first time since the break up which was a month and a half ago. We've spoke on the phone and resolved our issues, both agreed to the fact we both made a few mistakes, she has said she misses me and that most of her wants me back... The only thing that's stopping her is she's worried about wether she'll look at me and feel the same after it's been soo long since we've seen each other...

I've played it cool, kept conversations short and been nice, and the vibes I'm getting are that we still connect and get on like a house on fire, no awkward situations or silences. Like she is, I'm also a bit worried and nervous about seeing her face to face after so long, wether I'll look at her and feel everything I use to, we were together for a year and a half...

Does anyone have any advice on things I can sort of do to remind her of the old days so to speak?

Any advice is appreciated

I'm meeting up with my ex in a few days for the first time since the break up which was a month and a half ago. We've spoke on the phone and resolved our issues, both agreed to the fact we both made a few mistakes, she has said she misses me and that most of her wants me back... The only thing that's stopping her is she's worried about wether she'll look at me and feel the same after it's been soo long since we've seen each other...

I've played it cool, kept conversations short and been nice, and the vibes I'm getting are that we still connect and get on like a house on fire, no awkward situations or silences. Like she is, I'm also a bit worried and nervous about seeing her face to face after so long, wether I'll look at her and feel everything I use to, we were together for a year and a half...

Does anyone have any advice on things I can sort of do to remind her of the old days so to speak?

Any advice is appreciated

Me and my ex girlfriend have been apart for about 8 weeks, when we split up she said she was sure that she didn't want a relationship and that this was 100% the right decision... So after making the usual mistake I went no contact for 2 weeks. She called me last night and we talked and she said that everything isn't as it seems, that even though I thought she looked happy she wasn't, that she's been Sick recently and she's cried because she wasn't used to not having me there... Anyway I kept my cool and told her I'd improved me, I've lost a lot of weight recently and I've bettered myself IMO. I'm at the point where if she were to say it's over for good I'd be able to take it and carry on with working in me...

Anyway she said she missed me but didn't feel as though she treated me right and just wanted me to be happy, telling me I could do so much better which tbh I know I could. I just told her to take some time to think about it all properly and we are meeting up next week, she said she was confused by what she wants but can't let me go forever... I was just wondering if anyone had any advice to sort of show her what she's missing, make her want me back, because ultimately I'd have her back...

Any advice is appreciated

Basically me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 weeks, she was the one who did the dumping. I won't talk about why we did because we sorted our reasons out. Anyway I want her back so bad but at the moment she's saying she just wants to be in her own like not have to worry about a relationship... she keeps telling me that's what she wants but saying she thinks about it all the time in wether she's made the right decision. Through out our relationship I have always been there for her, yes I made a few mistakes like moaning at stupid things but hey I'm young, mistakes are meant to be made. Yet she was always having a go at me, I never left her I always stayed and treated her like a queen, always out up with her **** yet as soon as I make a mistake she leaves.

I tried no contact so many times but I keep breaking it after a week and telling her I want her back. I want her more than anything, but all she is thinking of is the mistake, she won't consider everything good I did for her and how I could have walked out so many times. Has anyone got any advice on maybe influencing her in a way like to make her think twice about if leaving me was the right descision? Anything I can do that she will notice and make her think twice? Also we are both 18 and I kinda get upset when I find out she's going to clubs because she's single I don't want her to be hit on all the time:( any advice would really be appreciated, thanks

Me and my ex of a year and a half broke up about a month ago... She left me because I lied to her about seeing someone else before we got together and I never told her, and when I finally told her she left me! But a few weeks before we broke up I was having doubts so I asked for a break for a few days, she cried and called me every day because she couldn't do it which tells me she obviously really loves me. I've always treated her like a queen, I have never ever ever treated her badly, I've always been there and I've always stayed with her through her ****, but she's treated me like **** at times and as soon as I do something wrong she leaves!!

Anyway I made the obvious mistake and tried getting her back, but she said she doesn't want it anymore and wants to stay on her on with her friends?... So I've been no contact for around a week now, but then today I found out from our mutual friend that my ex has been saying to everyone there was other reasons we broke up, that I do loads wrong...? She's got what she wanted, we aren't together so why would she bother to tell everyone a bunch of crap that isn't true?

My girlfriend broke up with me because I lied to her, I won't specify the lies but I made a huge mistake. But I've always been there through her **** and it's never really felt appreciated, I lied because I was an idiot and I made a mistake, I would never intentionally do it to hurt her feelings ever, I love her too much... Anyway she basically wanted some space for a week, I gave it her and she then said she's wanted to pop up and text me but felt like she can't because it's awkward and that she's really upset and angry, she broke up in the end anyway, but I was willing to give everything to prove to her I was sorry!! But my question is she hasn't taken into account everything I've been through for her, I've never given up on her ever and I've been driven to the edge by some of the stuff I've been through!! I still want her back more than anything, but she says she isn't ready to talk or anything and that it's over...

Has she made this decision in anger and hurt? If I give her space will she finally realise what else I've done for her and come back? If not what can I do to get her back...? Any advice appreciated

Basically, I lied to her, told her I was seeing another girl because she broke up with me and I wanted to make her feel hurt like she did to me. We got back together about 6 months ago, I kept mentioning this girl but the truth is there is no other, I made it up to make her jealous... I told her the truth and she wanted space, but she said she's sure we'll still be together afterwards, that she doesn't want to leave me... Now yeah I messed up, but I can confidently say I've treated this girl like a princess, I've been through all her ****, her lies, her bad days, her off days, when she's made me feel like ****, I've always been there because I love her... I've never lied or mistreated this girl ever, not once, my goal is just to make her smile! She's admitted breaking up was the worst mistake she's ever made, she's explained in tears exactly how much she loves me... Now I made a mistake, all I want is to make it up and show her I'm sorry, whatever it takes! But I don't get what she's doing, does she wasn't space to make me suffer and feel how she did, is she considering breaking up, I just don't know where this is going? Any advice is appreciated, thanks

Basically, my gf broke up with me in about march. It was hard but in the end I made up a girl to sort of make her jealous, yes I know it's sad and strange but I texted her pretending to be this girl... I never told her it was me, and we ended up getting back together in May... At times I've brought this girl up saying this girl had text me and stuff and every time it ripped me with guilt but I was too afraid to tell her in fear of losing her... In the end, a few days ago I told her, I told her I was a dick and that I was forever sorry which I truly am. I told her I respected her to much to let it carry on any longer, and that it was a big mistake, I was childish and immature... Now she said she wants some time to herself to get her head straight and that she didn't know how to react or talk to me anymore, but she then said we'd probably still be together when she's sorted her head out... Now don't get me wrong, what I did was wrong in many ways, I was desperate and immature... But I've never mistreated her or lied in the past, my everyday goal was to make her smile, her smile made my life worth while... But she's lied to me before, she was secretly talking to her ex and kept lying to me saying she hadn't spoke to him, she's had chance after chance from me and I'd keep giving them her because everyone makes mistakes... But now I'm in the wrong, idk wether she's using this against me? I know I'll get hate on this a weird mistake, but any helpful advice is appreciated

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Basically, my gf broke up with me in about march. It was hard but in the end I made up a girl to sort of make her jealous, yes I know it's sad and strange but I texted her pretending to be this girl... I never told her it was me, and we ended up getting back together in May... At times I've brought this girl up saying this girl had text me and stuff and every time it ripped me with guilt but I was too afraid to tell her in fear of losing her... In the end, a few days ago I told her, I told her I was a dick and that I was forever sorry which I truly am. I told her I respected her to much to let it carry on any longer, and that it was a big mistake, I was childish and immature... Now she said she wants some time to herself to get her head straight and that she didn't know how to react or talk to me anymore, but she then said we'd probably still be together when she's sorted her head out... Now don't get me wrong, what I did was wrong in many ways, I was desperate and immature... But I've never mistreated her or lied in the past, my everyday goal was to make her smile, her smile made my life worth while... But she's lied to me before, she was secretly talking to her ex and kept lying to me saying she hadn't spoke to him, she's had chance after chance from me and I'd keep giving them her because everyone makes mistakes... But now I'm in the wrong, idk wether she's using this against me? I know I'll get hate on this a weird mistake, but any helpful advice is appreciated

Thanks

The last week or so my ex girlfriend has been saying she's started to miss everything, she's saying that she's been looking through pictures of us and been really down because she misses me, we broke up about a month and a half ago. When she knows in going out with another girl or go clubbing she says she always has the thought that I'm going to do something but she can't have any opinion in it... For the first time since we broke up, she actually said she loves me over the phone, she broke up with me because she felt as though she needed to be on her own, but I think she's regretting it! A few weeks ago she said she didn't think anything would happen between us again so i got on with my life... She wants to get back together but at the same time she doesn't but she doesn't know the reasons for not wanting too... Part of me wants her back, but I guess I want to find out for sure, I want to make her realise she made the wrong decision. I want to make her come back to me...

Any advice is appreciated

My ex, we broke up about a month and a half ago... I went out about 2 weeks ago, ended up getting wasted and I went home with a girl, then to my surprise my ex some how found out about it... Anyway she called me last week saying she was upset because of it but couldn't say anything because we are no longer together. She told me she didn't know if she wanted to get back together, but she wanted me to move on with my life but still chat to her, because she said she's going to think about wether she wants us again... But wants me to carry on with my life? Is this a good thing because I kinda want her to come back to me? Could I use this to my advantage?

Me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago, she was the dumper and it was for family reasons like she had problems at home! I was getting better, I was happier after the break up, I was getting on with my life, then she asked for my help and someone to talk to and I said okay because I did still care and I hated seeing her upset... After a few days she said she was getting better and wanted to remain friends, but all those feelings I'd put behind me when I was originally happy have all come back, it seems as each day goes by, she cares less and I care more because every day I think of ideas to say to her, things to try in some sad hope that I mighty get her back! I see guys comment on her photo saying she is perfect, and all I wanna do is tell them to back off but I can't because I have no say in this, each day I try to make it out like it's all a bad dream but then it hits me again and again and again! I keep telling myself to focus in my own life but all I do is think of hers and how I'm not part of it anymore:( I got so far, I was happy and getting on with my life, then I just fell again and I was right back to the start, I just need advice because it's driving me crazy, I can't stop thinking about her with someone else, how we used to talk and get on, then it's hits me that that's all gone...

Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. The first few weeks were a struggle for me then everything started to look up, I was happy and was starting to prefer the life of now... Anyway she text me one day, I was out with friends so when I had the chance I just said look I'm out with friends I'll text you when I can... She flipped and started going off on one say " oh since when did you go to dinner with your friends?! " and I just replied with oh I have a lot of free time now! Then the next day she said to me that she'd been having problems at home and was near giving up and was stressed and felt I was the only one she could talk to, but said I wasn't there for her even though she told me to get on with my life? I think that she's realised I'm gone and she always asks wether I'm out with girls, when I say yes she says oh well have fun!

I was confident I'd never get back with her because I was happier, but I promised her I'd be there for her whenever she needed me, so the last few days I've been there for her and she's just not paid any attention, just acted as though I wasn't there... I guess I just want to make her jealous and miss me and understand what she's missing? It sounds harsh but she doesn't realise, I'm 50/50 on wether I want her back so I guess I want make her come back to me?

Any advice is appreciated, thanks

I broke up with my girlfriend about a week or 2 ago! Obviously I didn't take it well as you'd expect, I was very very upset, felt so cold and didn't know what to say or do. Anyway I tried not contacting her, thinking oh I'll leave it a few days and she'll come to me... A week went by and nothing come, in the end it was too much, I gave up and called her... We talked and she said she thinks we should both move on with our lives, that killed me... But I tried to forget it and get on with things, then I went on her Facebook profile and saw she'd added her ex back:/ all I can think about is what she will be doing, what I'll miss out on, who she's with, what sort of photos she'll put up on her profile now she is single... I stopped following her on Facebook so her updates didn't come on my news feed but all I keep doing is going on her profile, I don't want to because I might see something that I don't like but I just do it anyway and I don't know why... I completely admit that there's something wrong but I don't know what... This is my first ever gf and we were together 10 months. I'm just really broken, she was the one who finished it and did wrong and now she doesn't even want to talks to me:(

Serious advice is needed as it's driving me insane! No hate but thank you for any support I greatly appreciate it.

Thanks.