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Does this means she wants me back?
The last week or so my ex girlfriend has been saying she's started to miss everything, she's saying that she's been looking through pictures of us and been really down because she misses me, we broke up about a month and a half ago. When she knows in going out with another girl or go clubbing she says she always has the thought that I'm going to do something but she can't have any opinion in it... For the first time since we broke up, she actually said she loves me over the phone, she broke up with me because she felt as though she needed to be on her own, but I think she's regretting it! A few weeks ago she said she didn't think anything would happen between us again so i got on with my life... She wants to get back together but at the same time she doesn't but she doesn't know the reasons for not wanting too... Part of me wants her back, but I guess I want to find out for sure, I want to make her realise she made the wrong decision. I want to make her come back to me...
Any advice is appreciated
2 Answers
- grrandramLv 77 years ago
She's playing you for a fool. First, you let her call the shots. If she wants to break up with you, then she does it. Wow. She says I love you AFTER she dumps you. How sweet. She needed to be on her own. So you should let her do that. She told you that anything wouldn't happen with you two again. This week she's missing having you around. Not necessarily you. Next week she will want to be on her own again. If you keep indulging her daily whims you're not going to be happy with her. Stop letting her call the shots. As you can see, she doesn't know what she wants. She's the type of girl who thinks she knows, but really she wants a guy who is going to tell her. So this week she's missing you. Play it cool. Don't trip over your dick to run back to her. If she's missing you. Let her miss you. Otherwise you won't get what you want which is for her to realize she makes bad decisions. Make her want you. Play hard to get. Tell her that you don't know if YOU want her back seeing as how she's so wishy washy. Can't make up her mind. Doesn't know what she wants one day from the next. You can't be bothered with that nonsense. Then let her think about it for a few days. She'll come running back to you. You have to be the "man". Women don't like making decisions. They EXPECT the guy to run the show. If you let the woman do it, they get mean and they walk all over you.
- Anonymous7 years ago
The break up is fresh. You can't expect to move on if you are still contact with that individual. I would suggest cutting off contact with her as way to prevent her from playing tiddlywinks with your emotions. You need space and she needs space in order to determine what would be the best course for you and her.
