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Good chance of getting back together?

Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago. I've just recently met her for the first time after the break up. Everything went surprisingly well, we got on just as well as we used to, not awkward at all and it's like we hadn't been away. She brought our relationship up and we basically spoke about what went wrong... I told her that I was sorry for what I did wrong, that I was immature and didn't mean to hurt her feelings when I genuinely didn't, I love her to bits...

Anyway she is saying part of her wants me back and wana to sort this out because she loves me, but the other half doesn't because she's heard me say it'd be different next time and she's struggling to believe it... I really want her back but to he honest I can't show her it's different and I'm different without being with her...

Any advice, thanks in advance

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  • 5 years ago

    There is really no way to get another person to change his emotions. "Living well is the best revenge." I realize you don't want revenge, but living a great life without him can make him think twice about you.

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    He might realize that you're a fabulous person to be around and that you're going to be fine with or without him. Keep in touch but in a casual friendly way, not needy at all, and he just might realize that he wants another shot with you. In the meantime, don't close yourself off to any other options.

    I'm twice your age and I'd been in quite a few relationships before I met my husband. So let me tell you from my experience... if he can't maintain a long-term intimate relationship he could be a born player/philanderer. He may have had real feelings for you but he may be overly distracted by other girls/women. This is something that often does not change with time. Of course he's very young, so it could also be just immaturity. It sounds like you are a lot more mature than he is at this point. I'm just saying, if it doesn't work out in the end you may be better off because he might be the kind of guy who is always chasing other females anyway. You might meet "the one" and be glad you didn't stay with this guy, charming as he may be. He can be very loveable but it'll just be hell to have a relationship with him if he strays.

  • 6 years ago

    not sure why u 2 split up*...but its only been 2 months...YES perhaps you've grown up a bit..see that what you did, or how u treated her...isn't the person that you are now*....but i still think...u 2 should continue not being together* IF ITS MEANT TO BE ...then down the line, it WILL BE*...but for now, u 2 miss each other, the GOOD times u shared ....sometimes ppl GROW once the relationship is overwith* They see what they did wrong and wont do that again in another relationship*. Perhaps u 2 are just meant to be aquaintences*. .... Continue living your life...learning new things...growing up....dating other ppl*. Like i said, IF u 2 are meant to be together, then eventually you will be* but for now....keep the distance...and move on* Goodluck*

  • 5 years ago

    Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/WNph1

    Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

    The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

    Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

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