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Don't want to get her pregnant, she's pro-life!?!?
My girlfriend and I are virgins and are planning on doing it for the first time. She told me tonight through text that she is pro-life. So that means she's against abortions? She said she frowns apon condoms, I'm not trying to get her pregnant not wearing one! I get the no abortion too, it sucks, but condoms are my best friend :'( . She told me that condoms can give you diseases and you can get sexual diseases at birth. Idk what to do but I don't what to get her pregnant, I do love her though so I'm not leaving her... no.... Never. Any suggestions? :'(
welllll she doesn't want to get pregnant, she's looking into different me ants of protection that aren't artificial -.-
13 Answers
- 7 years ago
Like everyone else has already stated, it's very obvious she wants to get pregnant, and is highly misinformed about the uses and reasons for condoms! If you aren't down for having sex without a condom, then DON'T. She can't force you, and frankly, if she tries to guilt you into it or convince you that it's ok regardless of your feelings, she really isn't worth being in a relationship with. Someone like that just sounds like a user, trying to get what she wants and doesn't care about anyone else.
- LizBLv 77 years ago
Wow, she's really misinformed. Condoms PROTECT you from disease. They don't eliminate the possibility of contracting an STI, but they significantly reduce the chances. And while she's right that some sexually transmitted diseases can possibly transmit from mother to fetus during birth (such as HIV), the mother would have had to have been infected.
I think you need to seriously re-think having sex with this girl. If she doesn't "believe" in condoms then she's probably not on birth control, and if she's okay with having sex without any form of BC, then honestly, she's trying to get pregnant. No sane female who truly wants to avoid pregnancy will EVER risk sex without at least a condom.
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- Eleanor HLv 57 years ago
It's great that you and she are thinking about avoiding pregnancy. For information on birth control methods and questions that help you (her) choose the best method, see:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/all-access/my-met...
For the effectiveness of different methods, see:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/bir...
But if she wouldn't consider abortion and yet rejects birth control, I agree, don't have sex with her. You said she is looking into non-artificial methods -- do you mean avoiding sex at the most fertile time of the month? That isn't something to depend on. She could get pregnant at any time of the month.
She is not well informed re condoms causing disease. She needs information. She might go to Planned Parenthood to get the information she needs.
Good luck!
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- ?Lv 77 years ago
She's basically TELLING you she's using you to get pregnant. If she won't consent to using protection, don't have sex with her.
- So TiredLv 57 years ago
Don't have sex with her. You only do it if you're one hundred percent okay with it but is clear you aren't.
Also, she is being very foolish and stupid, it would be better if you just stay away from her.
- KLv 77 years ago
She wants to get pregnant, you silly fool! DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER!
I also find it ridiculous that she's so religious that she's pro-life, anti-condom, anti-birth control, and yet...she wants to have premarital sex. F8cking religious hypocrites.
- 7 years ago
If she's too stupid to not use a condom then she's not worth your time. Tell her you're using a condom or not doing anything with her.
- тιgєя.Lv 67 years ago
Dump her. Trust me, three minutes of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of being associated with someone you may not want to know in 5 years time.