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Is this normal to feel?

I'm 18 and female.

So while I'm inexperienced dating wise only having two relationships, guys have been real ***** to me so I've never really had real feelings for them or anything. But anyway two months ago I met this guy, at first I ended up only contacting him as a friend but recently we started dating.

He's like the most non dramatic person in my life and he makes sense. He removes all stress I feel generally and he's also the nicest friend and boyfriend I've ever had without making it seem like he only likes me romantically. He is patient, and respectful and smart and just human. Its wonderful and I've never been treated better. I feel happy like really happy and like I might have real feelings for someone but its equal on both sides. We have tons of similar interests.

He's a lax geek/ nerdy guy and he's not really too exciting, he's not the most attractive (pudgy and has his flaws) but its the most stressless life being with him. I don't have to hold my breath and I can be me and loved. I don't have to be pretty or perfect (I had a bad body images)

We could both spend tons of time together with no problems at least not for awhile. He's just gets it, he gets me and I get him. No pressure or anything its all relaxing in a non infacuation way.

Is this how dating should be? Is this how a relationship should be?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Every relationship is different, but this is one possible way it can go! Good for you for keeping appearances and status out of it, you'll be happier in the long run. It's hard to find a guy that's nice to you so don't take that for granted! Good luck and go for it!

    Source(s): 18 year old girl
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Sounds like the perfect relationship to me :)

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