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I'm 19 and dumb.

I had smex with my bf but I've been on BC for two months due to lack of insurance. I went and took prilosec plan b afterwards (this morning) and we used a condom and he pulled out before he came.

I think I'm good but my nerves are on edge from it. I need birth control before doing stuff again I know but do you think I'm okay and won't get pregnant from this?

I'm 19 and a chick. An old friend and I reacquainted recently and he was in a bad situation and stayed with me for awhile. I ended up leaving my bf because I needed to and me and this other dude cuddled and hung out drunk and then the other nights I was too high and we fooled around. He's a virgin and we almost did stuff but them didn't because he was confused and didn't know how. We still hung out a bit afterwards and he wanted a hug the next day but since then we haven't mentioned anything or really hung out aside from work. He always playfights and picks on me but that's it and I guess I've been a bit awkward feeling afterwards but don't want to ruin my friemdship or anything. I asked to hang out for a couple days or he'd ask me too but then we didn't cause he'd go home or hang with another dude friend which is fine but I just didn't want to make us awkward. I did not to him about my breakup and being upset a bit (we already did stuff together btw) but we haven't mentioned anything else about what we did. I might be over thinking it though too and my weird vibe is showing.

I think I ruined our friendship because we don't really talk. We haven't since I got sick from drinking the other night (had a bug not because of alcohol) and he left.

He ignored my text today (but not the one I sent him about work) we just don't talk as much either. It's weird cause he started the flirty stuff with me and I gave into it but now it's like I lost him as a friend.

I'm 19 and a chick.

I just randomly got out of a relationship due to confusion. I think I really need time to reevaluate my life. For the past 4 years I've been out of school and alone for most of my life I've never had real friends and was by myself.

I got really boy crazy around 9th grade and since then I've just sorta been in 3 unhappy relationships and whether I admit it or not I feel like I'm just having male friends because I want to be somewhat flattered otherwise I'm with family.

This is making me weird and ruin a lot of friendships I think because I'm not taking time or even trying to focus on myself or future. I'm not prompt or anything but I do know this isn't healthy and I need to be my true self again amd not this dramatic selfish girl.

I've become selfish and I see myself doing it and I need to stop. It's hard though but I feel like I need to be alone for a few months or something like o used to.

I just don't know how to gwt away from relationships and be myself again. What do I do? I want real friends not lovers

I'm 19 and girl. I'm a loner and introvert who keeps to herself and stays at home or hangs with my 3 friends. Okay so back in highschool I had more friends etc who I don't talk to but for the past 3 years I stopped associating with everyone from school. Anyway, I had a bad break up with some dude who got mad and left me drunk on a road and we never talked again.

Well this boy starts contacting me, and commenting on FB status and mentioning my ex in them. Even though it had nothing related in the status. (btw i am currently dating another, and very wonderful guy who I love. So i'm I talk to the guy on messenger and he goes out of his way to tell me he is hanging with my old friends (my ex and his bff) and I'm like "That's great for you" and I didn't reply back.

Were they likely just going out of the way to mess with me? My ex is a dick and treated me like crap and left me drunk and let his friend try to assault me. Like seriously screw him. But we haven't talked or associated in months. Is is likely they are just talking smack and messing with me. I know its just facebook but my ex has me blocked so why is this other guy messing with me?

I'm 19, I met this guy in February we Started and dating around march and it's September now so it's been a small while. He's 4 years older than me.

I'm pretty happy, he's not really the greatest financially which I do wish he was better in for himself though not for me. And he's not uber hot but I find him irresistible and like him for him. He's always nice and welcomes me.

He told me he loved me first and it took me a bit to say it back. But I feel I do love him a lot even if we were just friends. However he says I'm not but I miss him a lot, not badly but it's just all the time I long to be with him I guess.

I don't get to See him normally because I'm at home a lot. It's because my parents don't like me being out and think I'm wasting my life but I don't like home because of how dysfunctional my family is. My mom is depressed and constantly wants me around but it makes me depressed because she doesn't try to help herself. All my family does is bicker and when we do get along I just don't fit in. I haven't for a long time before dating my bf I'm usually alone in my room or always by myself.

So I find myself missing my boyfriend a lot and I fear I'm clingy. I don't text super much but I wish I could see him more often and he wishes the same. I complain occasionally about him cause he gets to hang out with his friends a lot and actually do stuff but I'm at home unable to. So I get kinda mad but don't mean to.

Am I clingy?

I am 19.

I never got to finish highschool due to being pulled out by my parents. I have no diploma and am trying to get my GED.

I've never had a job but I want to get one but I just don't know how and filling out online apps isn't helping. I really would like to get one I know I need to dress nicely but I just don't know how to apply aside from getting a form. I really need a job though because I want money for me.

I want to be a cartoonist career wise amd I plan on going to college for it or art school. But it's just all the stuff I have to do to get there

I'm a sheltered kid and I would really like some advice on getting a job just for cash to save up. I really want to get out of my house and move out so I want to save up money.

Can anyone help me

I'm 19 amd female.

I'm over wanting friends, I've reached a state of just wanting to be around family and my boyfriend. But also I end wanting tons of alone time away from them too.

Lately I'm reaching a state of not wanting to talk and usually I'm in my mind. I'm always thinking but very quiet. I get no alone time lately I'm constantly having to talk to my mom ( we're friends and she's in a bad mental state right now) or im helping her work for free ( i have a job but she needs help too) but the thing is its either I'm forced to be with her or with my boyfriend.

I never get a break from the two and I love them, but jeez I'm tired. I really enjoy the presence of Mt pets but friends and family annoy the crap out of Me lately. I can't get anything for myself done and I'm constantly having to entertain the presence of others.

I only really like spending time with my pets lately because they don't annoy me. Everyone else takes me for granted, causes me stress, and treats me bad.

I'm 19 now and a girl.

I'm at a weird point in life right now, I've always been a loner due to not finding people with similar interests and it left me lonely and socially awkward.

Well now I've gained my independence and made friends like me who like me too. Every amazing boyfriend but lately I just want to be alone. Like I can barely carry on conversations and I make no effort to talk or hangout except with my bf sometimes.

I just have nothing I want to share. My temper is also growing with people like I hate crowds or talking with the public for some reason. I just get annoyed.

I'm enjoying alone time lately as it gives me time to do my things with no worry. But the conversation thing worries me as it happened very suddenly this lack of wanting to be with people.

I have it off and on throughout life but usually because of the bad friends my friends aren't bad now though. I just really enjoy talking and hanging out with my pets more and my mom.

Or playing on my computer games and reading.

I can't force myself to talk and my bf worries some things wrong but I tell him I just can't talk or don't feel like it. I'm just comfy by myself for some reason and I crave my alone time.

I hope I'm not in the wrong, am I ?

I'm 19 and a girl.

He's really sweet and nice and a gamer guy ( which is great cause I like that too. We're big nerds)

His family and he always treat me very good and I know he loves me.

But he's unemployed (supposedly of disability but I think he uses that as an excuse. It makes my parents mad and I hope he gets a job since he can work now) not in college either supposedly because he has to wait till a certain age he's 23

Also he smokes weed and I quit. He said he wanted to quit but hasn't and he said he'd never ask me to get weed off of because I felt used. But on my birthday he asked to get some and it hurt my feelings.

He also ignores me with his friends unless I'm present. Yet he bitches to me about his friends. I'm a loner with no friends and I enjoy hanging with him but he let's me down. Like last night I was staying with him because I study all week and work and help my family and only have weekemds with him but his friend whom I'm paying to build something for me just pops in and wants to stay over. So my bf says we can a stay over.

He has a small room and that's not fair to me. He could've just said not to stay over to his friend who is always staying over but instead tried to make me share and I don't ever complain I put up with a lot and I'm always there for him, but that's unfair to me.

He never takes initiative like I want to go camping and he said he would but never went. I plan on talking with him but it's like he takes me for granted .

I'm 18 next week I'll be 19. I'm a girl.

I've been out of school for 3 years almost now, not because I dropped out by parents forced me to home school but couldn't afford it and wouldn't allow me public school.

I feel frustrated and stuck in life. I'm getting my ged and trying to get a job but I've been applying everywhere and I get nothing. I haven't ever had a job and my parents let me barely work the one they got for me.

They are very controlling my whole family is, I literally take care of house work, shopping, my grandparents. I want to be a cartoonist and I feel tied down and ambition dying.

I don't feel like a part of my family and they get mad at me for that but I get told I'm a failure or don't make sense but my brother gets praise ( he doesn't even have a license

I just want college but having to take care of the home takes a lot. My family does not clean it anything for themselves or take care of their pets.

They get drunk and high but I'm the loser because I'm unemployed and not in school. I don't want a hard Labour job

They also let me have no life or social life. They're trying to make me dump by boyfriend ( who is getting a job for him and me and is cleaning up for me) but mom keeps saying I won't be happy. I am literally not allowed to do anything without being griped at like camping or anything that doesn't include them

I try to fit in here but I just cant.

I've tried talking their argument makes no sense, just I don't understand.

I am 18 and a girl, going on 19.

The situation with my life is difficult, I come from a very dysfunctional family whom I love but are very abnormal and introverted. See the problem though is that for the past 3 years its been a very big rut for everyone in the family, well currently we're coping with my aunt having cancer and being stuck out of state in another hospital. She is unable to come home currently and its been a lot of traveling back and forth. Its left everyone in a financial instability and its been a crazy amount of stress

Well since we just got my grampa out of the nursing home and only I and my 30 year old cousin are around to watch him. Technincally mostly me, I have to stay with him every night so I never get to stay in my own bed or at my house but I can't move over to his house so I just pack an over night bag. my grandmother is with my aunt (her daughter and my mom is currently with my aunt in MO too) so it just me my brother father and grampa and cousin.

My cousin takes off a lot watching him, she is unemployed and very poor. I have a job part time but after being rehired I'm already having to take off to watch my grampa because my cousin leaves him all the time. I also do everything else for my family, no one else cooks, cleans, takes care of anything household or grocery wise its always me and my cousin can't cook for my grampa because she refuses to cook anything new for him,

I'm 18 and 23.

My whole family is saying I spend too much time with h but he's my best friend and we play video games together. I've never had a friend nor boyfriend like this who also treats me and my family incredibly well.

I'm much happier with him but not in an irresponsible way as he has inspired me so much. I'm still getting my schooling together and finding a job.

I just love being with him cause he's my best friend ever. I'm happier being with him than anyone and these days my family are so negative I'm looking for positive people and he is one.

I want to see if I will go comatose, also I am very much a lightweight.

I'm 18 and a girl.

I've had my bad 2 years nearly of bulimia and working to quit.

I purge off and on but I guess I do keep stuff down and I am really working to quit.

I'm trying to work up something to go off of. You see Bulimia has no pros, its an illusion to make you think you aren't gaining weight but really what you're doing is changing your body's composition for the worst.

Being bulimic makes my personality go to crap, and it makes me really stupid while a healthy me is really smart. Its just so hard to work to be a healthy weight when food makes me feel crappy eating but the after effect of eating and being healthy is that I have a wonderful personality and people like me more as a person.

Its just so hard struggling with this and trying to keep everything down. I have to remain silent about it as I have no one to tell and this is something I must overcome.

Can I have a bit of personal experience and help.

I'm 18 and female.

I wasted two years of my life basically with an eating disorder and I am trying to make up for it and take advantage of life. I am trying to learn as much as possible and experience as much as I can.

But also I am trying to get into college, dealing with getting a job, my family, pets boyfriend and personal interests. And recovering from my eating disorder. I do smoke pot to help me concentrate and eat normal and it helps a lot.

But I feel worn out mentally lately, I'm still cramming though and trying to catch up with life and I just feel like there is so much to do at once and I am on and off exhausted really badly.

How do I cope aside from determination which is beginning to fail me.

I'm 18 female.

He was my second guy

His commedia in first condom and then we had sex again. Condom never broke or slipped and I'm on birth control

But I ache all over today in my Lower abdomen and it's making me sick feeling but I think it's gas too.

What are the chances of me getting pregnant? Some cut got on the bed but it only touched my calf.

I'm 18 and female.

So while I'm inexperienced dating wise only having two relationships, guys have been real ***** to me so I've never really had real feelings for them or anything. But anyway two months ago I met this guy, at first I ended up only contacting him as a friend but recently we started dating.

He's like the most non dramatic person in my life and he makes sense. He removes all stress I feel generally and he's also the nicest friend and boyfriend I've ever had without making it seem like he only likes me romantically. He is patient, and respectful and smart and just human. Its wonderful and I've never been treated better. I feel happy like really happy and like I might have real feelings for someone but its equal on both sides. We have tons of similar interests.

He's a lax geek/ nerdy guy and he's not really too exciting, he's not the most attractive (pudgy and has his flaws) but its the most stressless life being with him. I don't have to hold my breath and I can be me and loved. I don't have to be pretty or perfect (I had a bad body images)

We could both spend tons of time together with no problems at least not for awhile. He's just gets it, he gets me and I get him. No pressure or anything its all relaxing in a non infacuation way.

Is this how dating should be? Is this how a relationship should be?