boyfriend dissapointing me?

I'm 19 and a girl.

He's really sweet and nice and a gamer guy ( which is great cause I like that too. We're big nerds)

His family and he always treat me very good and I know he loves me.

But he's unemployed (supposedly of disability but I think he uses that as an excuse. It makes my parents mad and I hope he gets a job since he can work now) not in college either supposedly because he has to wait till a certain age he's 23

Also he smokes weed and I quit. He said he wanted to quit but hasn't and he said he'd never ask me to get weed off of because I felt used. But on my birthday he asked to get some and it hurt my feelings.

He also ignores me with his friends unless I'm present. Yet he bitches to me about his friends. I'm a loner with no friends and I enjoy hanging with him but he let's me down. Like last night I was staying with him because I study all week and work and help my family and only have weekemds with him but his friend whom I'm paying to build something for me just pops in and wants to stay over. So my bf says we can a stay over.

He has a small room and that's not fair to me. He could've just said not to stay over to his friend who is always staying over but instead tried to make me share and I don't ever complain I put up with a lot and I'm always there for him, but that's unfair to me.

He never takes initiative like I want to go camping and he said he would but never went. I plan on talking with him but it's like he takes me for granted .