Do narcissists come back even if they're not sorry or will they go away for good if you point out their flaws?

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My ex, who claimed I was the love of his life and whom I left a 6 year relationship for last year, because I was fooled by his words, left me in December, because despite me telling him I would always stay friends with my ex of 6 years, he used that as an excuse to break up with me, because we went through 2 weeks of arguments, when my dog of 15 years was severely ill and dying and for a small period of time he didn't come first...and I wasn't in a good state of mind...

When he so abruptly broke up with me right before Christmas, I started researching personality disorders and his behaviour matched perfectly with that of a Narcissist...and not so surprisingly, he came back to my life after three months, emailing me and saying I will always have a special place in his heart and that he was hurt and didn't know why we didn't work!(even though he was the one who dumped me, despite me drowning in a sea of self blame and apology, far more than my fair share, to save us!) 
So I wrote him a letter explaining how he only wanted smooth sailing, and couldn't deal with a mild rough patch, and he wrote an email back blaming me even harder and more brutal than before, calling me abusive!!then I tried explaining to him how this wasn't true, providing him with facts and memories that contradicted his silly excuses, and afterwards, he seems to have stopped his mind games finally..can a narcissists come back to your life but his ego stop him from accepting any responsibility still?

Tim · Accepted Answer

Hell sociopath, narcissist what ever it was not right, leave him alone don't even give him the satisfaction of a reply if he contacts you.. And good that you have a friend in your ex, my ex and I are still good friends too

shaunda · Answer

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor. 

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it. 

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

TheGeek · Answer

I don't think you know the meaning of narcissist. It's some one who is self centred. This person sounds like a sociopath

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Margaret A · Answer

its never their fault they are blameless you should know that. if he was my ex I would stay as far away as possible from him, the only person he can and will ever love is himself.

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Do narcissists come back even if they're not sorry or will they go away for good if you point out their flaws?

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