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I love my boyfriend, but my best friend and I mess around..?
So I have been dating my boyfriend for about two months, we were very good friends beforehand,and we have told each other "I love you." Before getting into a relationship with my boyfriend I had a huge crush on this other guy who slowly became my best friend and I tell him everything. When I told him I liked him he told me he didn't feel the same way about me. I thought I turned my feelings off for him after that. Today we were hanging out, I was messing around attempting to braid his hair, next thing I know he puts his arms behind him to like hug me. He even mumbled something with the word hug in it. Then he was attempting to braid mine and put his arms fully around me.. And. I liked it. I didn't do anything back really because I'm dating my boyfriend but I sure wanted to. I still love my boyfriend but what should I do?
4 Answers
- TomLv 77 years ago
That's really not what I would describe as "messing around". It maybe crossed a line and was a little overly flirtatious but it's not like you two ended up making out and dry humping or something.
I think you need to distance yourself from this "best friend" of yours. Your boyfriend is a VERY trusting guy to even tolerate you spending so much time alone with a guy friend apart from him. You do realize that most guys wouldn't be comfortable with that at all, especially since this guy is good looking and you used to like him. Don't make a fool of him for trusting you. There is too much chemistry between you and this guy for you to just be platonic friends. This is obvious. If you can't handle being in a committed relationship, then don't be but you can't have your cake and eat it too.
- ?Lv 57 years ago
Your boyfriend is probably going to find out if you mess around sexually with your best friend and then it would be over. I think you need to choose which guy you really want for a boyfriend and be faithful to him.
- 7 years ago
Find girls to be your best friends, because have guy friends their just gona keep trying to have sex with you thats all it will ever lead up to.
