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Does he really love me or does he love his ex?

Right.. We've been together for about 5 months now. When we met, he had been broken up with his ex for about a month or 2 so it was pretty fresh.

Everything's been fine so far. And he did being up his ex a couple times at the start, but hardly ever now. And just as we both was starting to forget about anyone else, he gets a message on twitter from his ex's friend asking for his number. Then we later found out that the friend was with his ex that same day. His ex just won't leave us alone.

So we were talking about it and a lot of other things and turns out he's lied about a few things. Like sleeping with this girl who he was seeing before me. But it wouldn't have bothered me at all. And he keeps saying how now that he's with me he actually questions if he was ever in love at all. But some things he's told me of what she's done, if you didn't really love someone, you wouldn't have stayed with for such a long time.

I just feel like now, he's probably lied about so much. And I don't know what to do. I'm goin to talk to him about it tonight, but now his ex has popped up again, I'm thinking about her just as I forgot about her.

I've always been single to avoid all this hassle, but I do love him. I'm just questioning if I should talk it out with him and see what he says or just break it off?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Please, before you do anything. Think, this friend of his. Was he trying to just get your boyfriend to contact him, or was he trying to cause your boyfriend trouble. Did he know that your boyfriends, ex would try to cause trouble. That is what you need to ask your boyfriend,how he answers you will give you a clue to this. But be aware that your boyfriend had been with his ex for sometime. She sounds like she is trying to come between the two of you. But what happened before you two got to gether is is in the past. What you need is reasurance he has moved on from her.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    If the relationship is not satisfactory for you....leave.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    The lies should make you pause. I married a liar and if she said it was raining, I had to look out of the window to see if this is true.

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