Kelsey

Hi, I'm 20 years old, have a few tattoos, size 10 on top and 12 on bottom (although I'm in the process of losing weight and hoping to be a 10 all over..) and I'm thinking of getting into modelling.

However I'm not too sure how I go about this, or what type I want to get into.

I don't want to get into glamour modelling.. I'm too short for fashion, but I am willing for face type modelling, or even underwear..

I have red hair, green eyes and I'm 5'4. I'm not fat (in case you might think I am by my size 12 bottom, but that is due to my bottom being genetically bigger lol)

Any idea of how I could find out which modelling would be best for me? I did sign up to some modelling thing and got into the top 30 which guaranteed me a spot. But I didn't go for it..

Hi, im 20 years old and usually a very happy individual. Lately, for the past 5-6 months, I have been feeling down and im not entirely sure why.

Ive been working at my current job for the past 4 months. I hate it. Its boring, hard work, sh!t pay and theres hardly anyone here. The lady who I have to work with thinks shes my boss, and talks down to me, also everything is my fault (even the things she cocks up!) and im just fed up. This is probably the main reason im down.

My brother and sister have both just had babies 5 months apart. Im so happy for them, but I just cant help feeling useless. Theyve got so much going on with their lives and then theres just me. Doing the same old thing that ive been doing for the past 4 years.

I dont think im depressed. Im not sure if I am or just dont want to know. I dont feel down ALL the time, but most of the time I am. I feel like crying a hell of a lot and I dont get excited. Nothing really appeals to me. Nothing seems fun. I literally just want to go home and stay at home.

Any ideas on how I can change how I feel??

Hello :) recently my periods have been irregular as I came off of the contraceptive injection about 2/3 months ago. It seemed that my periods began becoming regular again as my last one came 3 weeks after the one before that when they have been coming whenever they liked. However, I came off of my period 10 days ago and whiles having sex with my partner (who I've been with for a year) I bled during sex..

Could it be that I've come on my period early again? It was a rather generous amount, so I don't know if it could be spotting because I'm pregnant..

I've been checked for sti's before getting with my partner, so the only way I could get one is if he has cheated on me and passed it on.

Any ideas what this might be?

Oh and I'm not bleeding as much as I did last night, if that helps. Thanks

Hi, just wondering which paint would be best to use to paint plastic with? And which glue is best to keep gems stuck to plastic for longest?

Thank you

Hello, I wanted to keep the question brief, but yes, i was on the injection for 6 months. Which works out I had it done twice. I hated it but got it again thinking maybe it gets better once youre used to it. Not in my case, so I came off of it.

Anyway, after coming off of it, I had 3 periods in one month. Then after a week I had another period, then after 2 weeks I had another. Last week, I spotted. Very very lightly and only for 2 days at night time. I havent come on my period yet and its been nearly 3 weeks.

My breasts are very tender, Ive been quite emotional, getting tired and spotty. All of which are symptoms of when i am about to come on, but these are also signs of pregnancy.

I am getting a test after work, just thought id get peoples views and opinions. About to come on or pregnant?

Thank you

Hello :) I have a job dilemma. I currently have a job. Not great money, longish hours, not enjoying it but it's right on my door step. I went for a job interview today and got offered it. Great atmosphere, better money, get to work with my cousin, however it will take me longer to get there and they have a large turn over of employees...

Is it better the devil I know? Or should I take the risk?

I'm really interested in becoming a zumba instructor. I've done some research, but I've only been able to find out about courses.

So do I need a qualification?? I'm just curious as to how to go about it.

Thank you

Right.. We've been together for about 5 months now. When we met, he had been broken up with his ex for about a month or 2 so it was pretty fresh.

Everything's been fine so far. And he did being up his ex a couple times at the start, but hardly ever now. And just as we both was starting to forget about anyone else, he gets a message on twitter from his ex's friend asking for his number. Then we later found out that the friend was with his ex that same day. His ex just won't leave us alone.

So we were talking about it and a lot of other things and turns out he's lied about a few things. Like sleeping with this girl who he was seeing before me. But it wouldn't have bothered me at all. And he keeps saying how now that he's with me he actually questions if he was ever in love at all. But some things he's told me of what she's done, if you didn't really love someone, you wouldn't have stayed with for such a long time.

I just feel like now, he's probably lied about so much. And I don't know what to do. I'm goin to talk to him about it tonight, but now his ex has popped up again, I'm thinking about her just as I forgot about her.

I've always been single to avoid all this hassle, but I do love him. I'm just questioning if I should talk it out with him and see what he says or just break it off?

I found out about my redundancy about 2 weeks ago. However, I had my redundancy meeting only yesterday (as my manager was on holiday and didnt get anybody else to do the meeting with me earlier). He told me yesterday that I have to work a 4 weeks notice from yesterday.

Ive managed to find a new job, which I will be starting the last day of my notice period, but I want some time off before starting. I want to be able to relax a bit and get my head around the fact that im starting a new job, rather than jumping from one straight into the other.

I think its rather unfair that I have a 4 weeks notice period from yesterday, even though I was told about the redundancy 2 weeks ago, and they failed to do anything about my next meeting after that.

I contacted HR and spoke to the lady and asked if I would be able to have 7 working days off, and basically finishing on the 10th instead of the 18th. She got back to me saying that it is up to my manager.

Not long after talking to her, my manager brought me into a meeting room and basically questioned me as to why I contacted HR, and now he is p!ssed off with me, saying how I have shot myself in the foot.

Im I entitled to any time off? Is there a way that I can go about this??

Thank you!

Im actually asking this for my boyfriend. He said he has a pain in his left hand side of his stomach. But its not actually his stomach, its just beneath it. Like his bladder. Ive researched a bit into it and the most accurate one that sounded most like his pain, was a pulled muscle. Which made sense to me, but he said he woke up with it. He also said that it hurts when he needs to urinate, but doesnt hurt when he goes, just feels like a huge relief when he does. He has also been urinting more, but not just little bits here and there, hes been going more frequently and urinating properly each time. When I searched these symptoms it came up with Interstitial Cystitis.

What would you say is wrong with him?

His symtoms are: Pain in the left side, just below the stomach, pain when urge to urinte.

Thank you!

Ok, it's a bit more complicated than that. I know he doesn't fancy his boss. But he had to go to her house last night with his friend to look at her bathroom as she wants him to do some work for her.

Anyway.. That was fine. I don't have a problem with that. But we went out with a few of our friends, had a bit to drink & came home. We went to his room & I quickly went to the bathroom. I came back and got on top of him.. Not realising he was asleep! After a while he came out with: I don't care if you're my boss, you're f'ing good in bed. I asked his what? Twice and he said the same thing another two times.

I got off of him & i didn't even want him to touch me. He said he didn't know what he said, and whatever he said I've taken the wrong way. But how can you take that the wrong way?

Basically, I was drunk myself and ended up being pretty hysterical.

Was it just because it was a subconscious thing why he said it? Or should I be worried..?

Intercourse... Ok, it's a bit more complicated than that. I know he doesn't fancy his boss. But he had to go to her house last night with his friend to look at her bathroom as she wants him to do some work for her.

Anyway.. That was fine. I don't have a problem with that. But we went out with a few of our friends, had a bit to drink & came home. We went to his room & I quickly went to the bathroom. I came back and got on top of him.. Not realising he was asleep! After a while he came out with: I don't care if you're my boss, you're f'ing good in bed. I asked his what? Twice and he said the same thing another two times.

I got off of him & i didn't even want him to touch me. He said he didn't know what he said, and whatever he said I've taken the wrong way. But how can you take that the wrong way?

Basically, I was drunk myself and ended up being pretty hysterical.

Was it just because it was a subconscious thing why he said it? Or should I be worried..?

I've been brought up around pubs. Both of my parents sing and do gigs and from a young age ive been going along with them, and getting up and doing a few songs myself :) Although a lot of people may disagree and think that allowing young children to go to the pub is bad, from my personal experience it never was. If anything its helped me when it comes to meeting new peeople!

So, ive always wanted to own my pub one day. But i've never really known how much pub owners make. I was under the impression it wasnt a lot.. But i've seen a few pubs and the owners look like theyre flying high!

Does anybody know the medium average of how much a pub owner would make? And how I may be able to go about owning my own pub one day?

Thanks

Ive been thinking a lot into the future lately, and I cant help but think that i'll never be able to afford my own place. Im only 19, and already my bills are taking over my life. Rent to give my parents, gym, phone bill, ipad bill, and the random bills that pop up. Im literally left with just over £400 a month if im lucky. Yeah its more than enough to survive on. But thats only because ive only got to pay £200 a month rent to my parents. I was planning on moving out with a couple of friends to experience a bit of independance, but thats not going to happen now because there would be no way i'd be able to save.

I feel like if im going to save (say £200 a month) im not going to be able to have a proper life. I wont be able to buy things that I want, or be able to go on holiday. And I will have to be saving for a lot of years if im able to save only half of a deposit I would need for a house.

Is there anything that will help me be able to own my own house one day? I know im only 19 and I am looking for a new job where I am able to earn enough to be able to save and have a life at the same time. I just feel like my generation are completely screwed when it comes to buying your own property. Im also at an awkward age bracket. I have 3 years working experience, but im still younger than 21.

Is there anything that I will be able to do? I would preferably like to own my own house by the time im 24.

Ok, so I know that every test is different, but I just wanted to know if there are questions that will most likely come up. Like, road signs or documents etc..

Ive been practising for the past couple of days on this website that my instructor gave me so it has both the questions and the hazard perception tests.

Ive been getting passes on all of the theory practise tests, but they end up asking me very similar questions.

Also, how many questions are there in the test? Is it still 50? Because I keep being told that it has gone up again!!

Thanks

One of my most embarrassing moments was quite recently.. I was extremely drunk and went back to my boyfriends with him. His mum had picked us up. When we got in his house, I asked his mum where their dog was. She said he was upstairs, so I called him down (bare in mind I dont remember any of this). When everyone had gone to bed, I decided I needed to use the loo. I got up - completely naked - but instead of going to the toilet, I went into my bf's parents room & called their dog by a different name.. My bf had to jump up and retrieve me & wait for me outside the bathroom. I apparently found it hilarious. So, when he told me in the morning I was mortified! Luckily it was so dark, his parents didnt know I was naked lol.

I also fancy a little laugh to cheer me up at work.

Whats your most embarrassing story?

Im ginger. I used to get bullied for it when I was at school. More so in my primary school than high school - because I learned to not let it get to me, and then everybody miraculously stopped. But now I love being ginger! There arent many natural gingers about anymore - so it does make us sort of different.

So do you like being a ginger?

Did you ever get troubled for being ginger?

Are you attracted to other redheads?

My boyfriend is slightly ginger & I love it!

A lot of the time, I can tell how a person is or going to be like if I know who their friends are or know what theyre like. I usually find that Im right when this happens.

So, do you believe you can tell a person by their friends?

I understand the whole concept of if a lock is opened by a lot of keys, its a sh*tty lock, and if a key opens a lot of locks, it is a master key. I get it. Although I think that is only one metaphor that supports the concept of why men can sleep around and women cant. But im confused...

Men want a virgin Mary, yet want someone who is able to take control and know what their doing in bed. Youre not going to get that with a Virgin Mary - definately not straight away anyway!

But when youve slept with a few people, and as a woman youve found out what you like, and what to do.. Guys like it and hate it at the same time. My boyfriend said to me the other day that he hates the fact that ive slept with other people! Even though he has! And I dont even know why he brought it up lol.

But women get branded a slag, ****, whore all the time and I think its wearing a bit thin now. This constant judging that women have to put up with when theyre single and 'want to have fun' so to speak. If a man/woman wants to sleep around at nobodys expense, who are we to judge? Just as if a man/woman wants to settle down and have a family, who are we to judge them for wanting to do that also?

Its just confusing, because if somebody wants to stay celibate, or wants to shag all round them, its f*ck all to do with me and you. So why do people feel the need to constantly judge others on what they want to do? Especially when it doesnt affect us in the slightest?