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I last to long in bed girlfriend gets upset what should I do?

Okay most guys problems is premature ejaculation when I see this type of question. Me on the other hand last too long my girlfriend thinks that she sucks in bed but I always last long in bed.

This frustrates her no matter what I tell her. This gives rise to another problem I take even longer because it builds anxiety that she might be thinking negatively. What should I do about this. Its a weird subject

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    My experience is anxiety results in premature ejaculation or no erection, but it may have the opposite effect on you. Or, maybe you just don't "get into the moment" so it becomes more mechanical than enjoyable.

    Do you use a condom? Some of the brands I've used didn't work well for me. If so, try another brand/make.

    Could be a sensitivity issue as well. Maybe you has less nerve endings in sensitive areas so it takes longer.

    Ask your girlfriend to perform more foreplay on you so that you're more excited by the time it reaches intercourse. Do things that really turn you (and her of course) on. Most importantly, relax, it's supposed to be fun and enjoyable, not work.

  • JJ1
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    Are you sure she doesn't suck? That would be the only thing I can think of. She isn't doing something that does it for you...

  • 7 years ago

    Stop masturbating so frequently and then you'll ejaculate faster

  • 7 years ago

    what reason do u think it is that u take so long?

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  • Mary
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Use the time to please her, then she won't complain.

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