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Why don't guys like me? I'll answer yours!!?

I swear when I'm telling you this, it's not to brag at all... I really just need help.

I'm nice to everyone. Like... I could never be mean. I just couldn't. Random people in stores always stop to tell me how pretty I am. One time, this creepy old lady made me go look at myself in the mirror lol. I almost always get a 9-10 on rates and my lowest rate was a 7. People always tell me they love being around me and always leave saying they want to hang out again. I'm pretty smart... I get As and Bs. Also, I'm (not bragging. Sorry, I know:/) really good at the drums. Like... REALLY good. Everyone always tells me I'm so talented and I'm basically my drum teacher's favorite student. The only thing that's bad about me is that I'm kinda shy. But I'm working on it, and so far, it's getting better.

So why don't guys like me? Why have I never been asked out? I guess I'm just kinda sad because all my friends have boyfriends, and I don't. And it's not even that I want a boyfriend... it's the fact that maybe I'm not good enough to ever get one, you know? Please help!

~Coralie

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  • 7 years ago

    Guys can be just as shy as girls. They may very well be wondering the same thing - 'why doesn't any girl ask me out?'

    Try making the first approach yourself. I'm sure it would brighten up any guy's day even if you just said 'hello'.

  • 7 years ago

    Must be your name. You should give yourself a nick name easy to ear. You should also comb your hair and look pleasant to the eyes. While your at it be sure you bathe and wear clean clothes daily and be sure you brush your teeth daily. Now that you took care of the basics. How do you act around them. You need to walk slow so a person can catch up to you and ask you out or talk to you. So walk slow in the hall ways or during your lunch break. Looks can bring attention but your personality can keep it.

  • 7 years ago

    Try saying hi to a guy first. Maybe because you are shy, guys don't know how to approach you. Don't worry though, you are still young. Keep meeting guys and the right one will come along.

  • 7 years ago

    Maybe because they find you hard to approach (: & don't worry you are good enough, it just your time isn't there yet.

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