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Is this fair for her to do this to me or no?
Is it really fair for someone to have feelings for you for a really long time and never ask you out but later on just found someone else and suddenly ask that person out? I need your opinions on this one. This is thinking question that's very important for me to ask. Also if you ever experience a problem similar to this, you can talk about it too. Please be honest, that doesn't mean, "just move on" or "he/she is a whore" or anything else like that. Be specific, I'm not in the mood right now. It's an emergency.
P.S: I find this "cheating" although this person wasn't my girlfriend but we knew each other longer than she know someone else.
2 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
Definitely been in this situation. Cared for someone a lot but it seem you were never good enough for them to ask you out. I've actually done this before also. Sometimes girls find themselves liking someone but doesn't have enough feelings to make it a relationship. Also maybe she didn't think that you liked her enough. Many times boys don't show enough feeling which pushes girls away. Maybe she I'm not saying move on for good but just give her time with this other boy and if she likes you enough she'll realize and y'all will get together. Happened to me. Hope this helped you (:
- Anonymous7 years ago
maybe she was expecting you to ask her out as you're the guy and when you didn't, she got bored and moved on. so when someone else asked her out she took the opportunity.
in a way it isn't cheating, however i don't know how close you two were. maybe you should talk to her about it, and maybe it should resolve things
later on in life she may find that she made the wrong decision and come back to you, if thats what you want but just don't come in second best. you should be treated right.
lastly she might just not be the one for you. many people come and go and you have to find the people that stick with you through thick and thin. people stay with you for a reason.
