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Can a 20year old guy be friends with a 11year old girl?

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  • Danny
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    I don't see a problem, but I feel like it would take on more of a father daughter-like relationship possibly. There's going to be maturity problems in this relationship. I don't have any moral conflicts with it, and some people would see it as a bit weird, but there is the maturity gap that you'd have to get around.

  • 7 years ago

    Um...no way!!! How can they be friends? They have nothing in common. Can they be on good terms? (like a 20 year old getting along with his friend's younger sister) Of course. But official friends? No. Soooo creepy!

  • 7 years ago

    Yes he can but it really depends on their feelings for each other. If he cares about her like a brother or dad then it's okay. But if he cares about her romantically then no. And same goes for her.

  • 7 years ago

    What in the world are you gonna do with an 11 year old girl.

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  • 7 years ago

    If he's a family friend then why not but if not then still be careful around him

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Sure as long as her parents are ok with it and it is totally as friends and nothing more.

  • 7 years ago

    Yes, just nothing more than friends. I mean you can be BFFLs but no attraction.

  • 7 years ago

    Yes! Age should not affect friendship watsoever.

  • 7 years ago

    If you have to ask then you probably know that there's something wrong.

  • 7 years ago

    I guess it's alright if it's just a friendship like a brother and sister kind of way. If you are attracted then that's wrong. If the parents know of this relationship and are comfortable then that's alright.

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