i have fallin in love with a married man?

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OK hi everyone! i need to ask a very important question and i really need some closure if im being completely honest. alright here it goes ,I met this man 5 years ago and i lost my virginity to him. I knew he was married and in the beginning it didn't really bother me.but as the years went i fell more and more in love with him I SEE HIM EVERY WEEKEND. and whenever i call him he hangs up the phone on me.I know i deserve better but sometimes  i feel like i cant move on.i really need some advice  on how i can forget about him and move on with my life once and for all. thank you soo much,

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think you should understand that virginity has a very special place in our lives but at the same time do not make it bigger than it has to be.  You made a VERY bad decision by allowing him to use you this way knowing he was married, and that is your responsibility, so don't expect us to make you feel better - now you learned a hard lesson about making decisions.  But at the same time you can learn from this for the future.  The virginity thing is not a big deal in fact you will have men who are even better than him, who don't use you, and who truly love you without putting you against their wife!!

Tiger by the Tail · Answer

Wow - sorry that you were so naive.  He took advantage of that and now that you're getting clingy he's shot you down.  I can't tell you how to move on but I suspect that you have learned enough from this encounter not to mess with the married guys again.

Anonymous · Answer

You must be young and you need yes NEED to learn not to cross lines with married ppl. Think of that family not your desires.
Not trying to insult you but when you mature hit a certain age you realise and sometimes develope morals. There are so many men out there dont ruin ppl lives.
He is no better but as woman have some respect and values.

boj · Answer

You cant forget about someone if youre talking to & seeing them constantly. End the communication & don't see him any more (period)

Rebecca Packer · Answer

Your first mistake was having sex with him and allowing yourself to fall for him . You are his booty on the side you cant say youve never heard of other stupid women like you who have done the same thing and it always ends in disaster.  You know how to stop seeing him you just dont want to . BETTER WAKE UP SOON.

Anonymous · Answer

who told u u deserve better? why do u people keep saying that? maybe u DON'T  deserve better and this is what u will get EVER.

Liz · Answer

What makes you think you deserve better?

Anonymous · Answer

oh wow, congratulations. I guess he is just using you for sex, i don't think he doesn't love you. your welcome!

Anonymous · Answer

Have some self respect.  You mean nothing to him. Find someone worthy of you.

D.E · Answer

hes married go find your own man.

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