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I feel ugly now?
I always thought I was a bit over average looking but now I just feel ugly. I'm a 14 year old girl in 8th grade. It all started yesterday when this girl in my class asked this guy if he liked me, he said nooo, he made a big deal out of it for 2 days. Btw he liked me, and I know this because he told his friend when he thought I wasn't listening. And he doesn't know that I know he's talking about me. He said "I dont like krusty the clown , you tried me" He just keeps making a big deal about it , its hurting my feelings even though I dont like him, he makes it seems like i'm a disease. Why do you have to make such big deal about it, if you don't like me? He saying it out loud and it just makes me feel like crap. Do you think he's overreacting because he likes me? I have low self-esteem now and I don't know how to fix it.
4 Answers
- dreamer.rc42Lv 67 years ago
You're not ugly. He's just frustrated that he got called out on something that he would have rather kept to himself. I imagine the big deal is because he really did like you but didn't know how to go about it and somehow being asked about it threw him too far out of his comfort zone so the best way to get over it is to deny the crap of it and act as if it doesn't phase him. I wouldn't take it personally, its a sign of immaturity in him and I'm sure you want a more mature person liking you. If he keeps bringing you down don't hesitate to get a teacher or some other adult involved to bring a stop to this, you don't deserve to feel less about yourself because of someone else's stupidity.
- 7 years ago
To answer your headline question, no, you mustn't feel ugly just because some guy doesn't like you.
- BlahLv 47 years ago
He's just being a 14 year old boy lol he's emabrassed because he was put on the spot so he's trying to save face. A guy thinks your cute---you should be getting worked up about this in the GOOD way :-)
If you have low self esteem you need to work to develop traits that you can be proud of---whether they're physical (e.g. join a sport), intellectual (e.g. read more advanced books or teach yourself new skills), or ethical (e.g. volunteer at an animal shelter).
