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How to handle a girl messing with my boyfriend? I'll answer yours?
We met through "Sara" and shortly before we started dating she told him (Zac) she regretted it because she felt like a 3rd wheel. She told him she was going to talk to me about it too, but she never did. The closer I got to Zac, the less she talked to me. When he asked me out she stopped talking to me all together.
Well she didn't stop talking to him. He doesn't like her but he's too polite to ignore her. But she keeps doing things which I think are intentionally meant to upset me. Like today at dinner he and I were sitting with some friends when i noticed her sitting a few tables away staring. Then she called him saying she needed to talk to him. Well he was there for a good 20 minutes before one of my friends texted him and he came back. While he was there I tried to avoid looking, but one time I did and she started throwing her head back laughing while looking right at me. And he said that when he said he had a text asking him to come back she wanted to know who sent it.
Right after he came back she and her friend left and our friends lectured him for talking to her but I didn't say anything. Then I asked what was so important and she "just wanted to talk because she never gets to see him anymore"
I know I don't have any solid evidence that she's messing with me on purpose, but I think she is. How do i handle this without lecturing him or trying to control who he sees? He's very sweet, I don't think he thinks she's up to anything, so why stop talking to her?
4 Answers
- 7 years ago
You need to talk with her about it first. Go to the source instead of going around it. She's the one that has the potential to steal your boyfriend not the other way around. And stop sending your friends to talk with him. Tell him how talking to her makes you feel. Please answer mine.
- Anonymous7 years ago
Girls can be so manipulative and you can see it right before your eyes. Firstly, what you are describing is really coy behaviour and meant to send a message to you. Perhaps she is jealous or just a ***** but she is after your man. She must be thinking she should be in your shoes. He should be hers. Ignore any further behaviour and see if you can avoid her because it only causes drama. If he is going to cheat then you cannot stop that but if he is genuinely a nice guy then the only stress is what she can create. I know she is pushing your buttons. Be cool about it and act like she doesn't affect you. No eye contact. Ignore her and carry yourself with calm assuredness that the man belongs to you.
- Anonymous7 years ago
You should talk to sara first...she sounds very jealous or even just hurt that she's lost a really good friend. Also you must stop getting friends involved, this happened in a past relationship of my friend's and things messed up, it was a similar situation to yours. Speak to her first, give it some time and see if she stops then you need to sit and speak with zac, you won't come across as controlling just be really honest with how she makes you feel..make sure you tell him that you've spoken to her already so he knows you're not blaming him fully. Good luck, please help me /question/index?qid=20140... xx
- 7 years ago
lol @ bishes fighting for so called "boyfriend". I bet he's phucking you both, along few others.