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fight the urge to get pregnant?

Im 21, 22 in November have been in a relationship for over a year with my loving 27 year old boyfriend. Im starting to find myself wanting children really badly. however im in my last year at university studying engineering, i want to join the raf as an engineering officer and my boyfriend has just got a job, my mind is saying "no! what the hell are u crazy" but my heart says "babies!!" how do i silence it? how do i stop these urges?

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  • 7 years ago

    I completely understand what you are feeling right now!! I was in the same boat! try babysitting a 2 year old. That will knock the desire right out of you lol. OR watch natural birth videos online or take a birthing class. That can scare you silly. Just know you have a lot of time to have babies too. I'm currently pregnant, It was planned but now I get sad sometimes thinking about some of the things I'll miss. I'm 22 as well.

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