56 son mom from HELL?

friends for a year talking on the phone the mother could hear us argue, never met the mother, visit 3 times 1 hr away. He lives with the mother since the father died. He's 56. I have good intuition about things. I am trying to help him over come women. I couldn't get a hold of him, decided to call his mother BIG mistake with rage, the mother said "Sam don't like you , stop bothering him, why do you keep calling, don't call any more, you know he has problems, psycho, stop calling, check your crystal ball, hang up". I was in tear, after that he called, said "did you call?", Didn't have any idea what happen,then got disconnected as his cell phone does that. I tried to call him back, it was a love and hate relationship. He e-mail "Stop calling my phone. I have enough crap to deal with right now and im fetting mad", what happen? who was he mad?why did she lash out?does he really feel that way?is it my fault?did he tell the mother or was she listening in?

I had to write it again it was in the wrong categories