question for those couples that really love each other..?

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For couples that truly love each other ..how did you know you were in love?
when did you realize that you loved that person.. did it click with you?.. or did you make mistakes in love a few times until you got it right?
did your heart or mind say to you that's the one?
and what did you do or do you do to make things fun?
or keep things interesting in your relationship.. 
these days it seems that sex,media, commercials.. ect don't really promote love of family, true love and how love should really be between a couple.. 
relationships can be so confusing and to really understand how a person that you care for feels.. 
it can be complex at times..
how did you find the one you really care for?
was it a feeling in your heart?
did you feel something spiritually with this person..?
and how are things now?

if you don't have an answer that is associated with the question and your response is meant to humiliate or make fun of my question your answer will be flagged..

some people out there seem to thrive off of making fun of others to make themselves feel better..
that's vary immature and selfish and unnecessary. 
if you need therapy you should see a therapist..

evee · Answer

well when i saw my husband he was different...he looked familiar to me..i thought...ive seen this guy before...

then when  we talked, i was very impressed...by how smart and loving,funny and sexy he is, and how he made me feel like a person....

he fed me, he literally put food into my mouth with his hand..and i thought aw my god i want to spend my life with this guy, and more than my life..

when he'd kiss me i got incredibly horny...he made me incredibly horny...

out of control horny...sex was out of this world...for both of us...

we struggled for the first two years, due to manipulation from other people, that made us misunderstand each other and what sort of people we were...

but after that we got to know each other well and we grew very close together and its been very good since...

we don't do anything to make it interesting coz just sitting on a sofa with him is very interesting...

we make love every day and talk to each other a lot...

that's what i live for...to spend time with him...that's the happiest i get...

just watching tv with him is a profoundly  spiritual experience for me..

we like healing each others hurts, we both had tough lives before we met...

and that is what life is about for me...

just enjoying his presence and nearness...

sometimes when we sleep i do strange things like i put my hand in his boxers....i get this really profound energy from his penis, lol

it just feels very right to be with my husband...natural...it makes me happy...

i like to pamper him and just make him feel loved...coz i feel a wholer, better person since i met him...like a have a purpose....i felt a bit lost before i met my husband....nothing made me happy...i was beginning to fear i was incapable of being happy...but i know now i was just missing the right mate..

from my experience 3 things will indicate its the one...you're right mate---

you will feel impressed by their character...(personality)

sex will be very amazing

and you will share same values...

it's no point trying to be compatible with an incompatible person...

if i am  monogamous what am i doing with a guy who thinks swinging is acceptable etc...

sure we can last short term with someone like that but long term not a good idea...

also if sex is not VERY good, come one you deserve more out of sex...

and last but so not least unless that person impresses you by her or his character and personality, keep looking for someone that will.

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