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He has kids? Parents hate him before meeting him?

I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 29, though he looks older and my parents don't believe that. He is the perfect guy, I've been seeing him for 6 months and everything was great. It was only yesterday that my parents met him, they immediately believed he's 40 and wouldn't believe anything I said. They also looked him up on Facebook and found that he has 2 kids with another woman that left him after 7 years for another guy. They never even have him a chance, all they said to him was hi how are you

My parents are screaming and crying every day and telling me I have to break up with him now. They're actually TELLING me to do it, not even advising me.

I don't know if what I feel for him is love but it's the strongest feeling I've ever felt.

What do I do?

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  • 7 years ago

    truth! I think you are settling and if I was your parent I would cry too. I don't think he is 27 and I have never even met him. how on earth you could think it is ok to be with someone who is 27 but look 40. hon, my advise is wait and hope for better things. end it.

  • 7 years ago

    You're a grown a** woman. You can keep your boyfriend if you want. In your twenties, seven years isn't that much of a difference. If he were beating you or being mean to you, I'd agree with them. But if the only reason they don't want you with him is because he's older than you and has children, then it's your decision to make. My boyfriend is only one year older than me (I'm 20, he's 21), and he has a two year old daughter with another girl that he was with for six years, and then she left him. At the baby shower, no less, how cold is that? Anyways, I love his daughter to death, and my dad was kind of weary about him having a kid at first - we used to fight about that, and my dad and I hardly ever really fight - but he eventually came around to it. Explain to them how much he means to you and that he's a great guy, and maybe they'll come around.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    you're an adult, not a teenager. If you want to stay with your boyfriend then do so. Your parents will have to accept it one day.

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