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Where do I go from here, because he's driving me nuts?!?

There's this guy who acts so strange towards me, and it's driving me nuts. Let me give a short explanation of what has happened in the last three weeks in layman speech:

---->I like a guy. I stare at guy covertly in school all the time, hope to find out his name. I accidentally find his Facebook. After some time, I add him. HE ACCEPTED! We talk, everything's going good. Except he does strange things: he usually never replies to my messages (despite leaving me on 'seen') but likes most of my statuses. Then---all of a sudden---he un-friends me. ( Oh, but before he un-friended me he made sure I knew by sending a message -_-)

...And that is where the story ends, my friends. I've asked him why, but he usually just skirts around the question and never gives a meaningful answer. And, what's more is that he often stares at me in the halls, outside school, or in class. How do I figure out what's up with him? He's being weird.

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    Sounds like you are stressing over something you have no control over. Maybe he is shy. Maybe he doesn't want to get in a relationship. Sounds strange that he went out of his way to make sure you knew he unfriended you.

    Move on to other people. If it's supposed to work out, then let him make that move.

    If he's being weird in a dangerous way, you need to let someone in on that, parent, counselor, teacher, friend's parent. Follow your instincts on this, but don't let a social media, FB, etc., run your life for you.

    Also, playing games with someone's emotions may sound cool, but it can backfire if they are dangerous.

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    7 years ago

    Maybe he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to upset her. Don't get so bent out of shape over Facebook.

  • 7 years ago

    He probably wants you to chase after him.

    No one lets someone else know they un-friended them unless they want you to fight for a reason why.

    He is staring at you in the hall because he's waiting for your reaction. He wants you to say "Hey, can we please be friends?"

    Dont fall for it. Make him come crawling to you. It's worth it .

  • 7 years ago

    Lead him on and he will want you. I dont know if you were sayinf he would friend you and befriend you multiple times on fb but if thats the case do the same thing to him. Send him a messsage saying im unfriending you and unfriend him. If not then flirt with him the next time you see him then next time he comes up to you pretend he doesnt exist. That is how i got my future hubby (:

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