Why are guys such a**holes?

I'm so tired of girls posting screen shots of texts with "thirsty" dudes claiming they're creepy and pathetic, especially when the girls did stuff like gave the guy her number, flirted with him, gave him her instagram, talked sexual to him, and/or never actually said she wasn't interested in him, in general giving him hope. It's cruel, sad, and not at all entertaining. We get it, guys think you're hot and want to have sex with you even though you don't feel the same way. Here's a thought: Using your sexuality and feigning interest to bait men into showing interest in you, and then publicly mocking them for that interest is actually uncool, fake, shitty behavior.

I feel like I shouldn't even have to add this, but I wanna point out, are those guys tools? Yeah. Are they clearly out of the social loop? Of course. But they are also for the most part lonely, and they often have social disabilities like Aspergers which isn't their fault and makes their lives very hard. When you exploit guys like that for personal gain, and humiliate them, you are whipping an already beaten down horse even further. You are causing undue pain on somebody who just wants to love and be loved- and causing them to be even more awkward, shy, and weird down the road. It would be a total shame if guys were to start doing that to all the thirsty *** girls around. But we don't, 99% of times when a girl hits on us guys we reject her discretely, politely, and honestly. If guys were to treat girls we didn't find attractive or cool, the way girls so often do these days, then we would never hear the end of it.

In conclusion, making fun of others for personal gain makes you look even more thirsty and sad than they are. If you don't like a guy? Save your excuses- tell him bluntly you don't like him (and if you wanna do like Jesus and give him a helping hand up instead of kicking him while he's down, you could even give the guy some pointers on what to do/not to do.) And if he continues to text? There's this convenient little button on smartphones that lets you block somebody in oh, idk, 5 seconds. Maybe try that instead of being dramatic. So many girls these days have such a high school mentality

Because guys are sick of having to deal with stupid, bratty, arrogant girls. Like you and most girls.

Cari, you are just an ignorant, stupid little kid. Quit complaining.

Well, when you're nice to him are you doing anything that is mildly attractive? Aka playing with your hair? Shyly avoiding eye contact? Stuff like that? Being nice and doing that tends to make guys think you like them.

Yeah, I know.. major a$$holes and I don't know why I even bother, but whatevers.

Lol Ikr. Don't worry. There will be one who actually cares and you'll see why it never worked out before. They're not all bad. I guess.

please, ENOUGH with the "why are all girls bitches?" "why are all guys assholes?" questions. it goes both way, but not all girls are mean and not all guys are jerks. you just haven't met any people with decency yet because either A) YOU are the immature one, surrounding yourself with people like you or B) you're too young, everyone is a jerk at your age.

I feel ya girl! It never gets better either. If you show them you like them the chase is over. They are hunters by nature... They are emotionally blind.

douche magnet, you have.