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Should I continue this relationship or end it?
My boyfriend is 30 and I'm 22, he has 2 kids but they live with their mum in a different state so he only sees them on holidays. My boyfriend was engaged to her for a while and then found out that she cheated several times.
I've never met the kids and my boyfriend has assured me many times that I am not obligated to them in any way.
So all this considered, is it a bad idea to continue this relationship ?
9 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
Advices can be a bog help. But at the end of the day, it's gotta be you who will choose, do and accept.
You have to think of any possible consequences since he already had kids from the past. Always think that these kids have their own mom and not you. But have to stand your own ground that you're the present of the guy you are in love with.
Do you really love him? Today? Another question. Will you love him for the rest of your life inspite of his past? Or you may just use that past to throw it to him whenever u guys might have a misunderstanding?
- Anonymous7 years ago
depends on your feelings towards your BF.
Whilst he says you are not obligated to the kids, what happens when he DOES go to visit them ?? Will you go with him ??
- Anonymous7 years ago
I don't see what the problem is?
- 7 years ago
My viewpoint is that he doesn't want to add any pressure to a new relationship, he doesn't want you to see the children as a burden to you. Perhaps they have an agreement with his ex in which they do not want to prematurely introduce the children to new partners until they feel the new relationship is getting serious.
He has his personality, let him make the decision and let him do it in his own time.
So... everytime you both disagree over an issue you are going to automatically think of ending the relationship? No, you don't have to end the relationship over this. All relationships have issues, you work on them to overcome them.
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- Anonymous7 years ago
No...
- Anonymous7 years ago
Pray to the lord let him guide you
- 7 years ago
No , i think you shouldnt end at least dont end it just because something he did in his past .he said you are not obligeted. Continue if you love him
- 7 years ago
No you are in good relation. Just take assurance from him that he should be their with you in all stuffs....