I'm paranoid about my girlfriends intentions?

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My girl is a great girl and she really, really tires. I get paranoid about if she has a hidden agenda against me ( that she might cheat on me, or play me for a fool) I seem to lash out at her even when we are fine over the smallest of things. This time over a conversation over facebook with a guy. She replied"if it bothers you that much I'll let you have my password so you see that I never did anything wrong" I refused of course(don't want to be controling)

I have bad past with women VERY bad bunch of girls in my life and I see her as the enemy and pull only to my side and Am very defensive. She patiently sits waits untill my anger fit is over and talks to me calmly she suggested we go to theraphy together(she knows about my past) and that she loves me.

I'm just really paranoid and don't know what to do about it. If anyone can give me some advice that would be great!

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds like she accepts that you have a rough past with women and really wants to make it work. If she seriously offered to give you her password, then you definitely shouldn't be paranoid at all I don't know many girls that would do that. Go to therapy if she thinks it will help--it can only make things better.

David N · Answer

Sort yourself out the problem is with you , your insecurity will drive your very patient GF away

You may have to ether get some counselling , or a self help book
dont ignore it , your issue will ruin your relationships , and ultimately your life

you have a great girl , she deserves better !!!!!!!

? · Answer

you need to break up what you guys have isn't a relationship, you shouldn't have to be paranoid and not trust you need to break up and find a more healthy relationship

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I'm paranoid about my girlfriends intentions?

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