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I don't trust my boyfriend anymore?
We have been together fr 5 years. Ok he has this friend named Brittany who is a well known hoe around the way. Because she is a hoe I don't trust her at all and the two of them hanging together makes me extremely uncomfortable. He says he does not want her and I myself have even tried to friend her but I catch on to the little things she says. He has fought to stay friends with her no mater how uncomfortable it makes me. In 2012 he has lied to me about seeing her because he was afraid of my reaction. She claimed she had no idea he lied to me about seeing her (which i think is a lie) but I no longer trust him and NEVER will ever trust a hoe. Should I just walk away??
7 Answers
- spare_widgetLv 77 years ago
Hold on here. You sound just a touch bitter and twisted that your bf could have another woman - AND you've decided SHE'S A SCARLET WOMAN! A TRAMP! Ready to run off into the wilderness with your bf on a leash... at the slightest provocation.
I've had gfs like that - so, if he did, I wouldn't blame him. YOU sound a wee bit, mega, uber, bunny-boiler possessive. [Could you possibly have done this before???]
Your bf has lied about seeing this friend, because he knows you're gonna jump to the wrong conclusion! Do you think he possibly has a point? Do you think he lied as a means of protecting you from yourself? THINK ABOUT IT - who does he come home to???
You say you've tried to make friends - I really don't think you've tried very hard. I think you've come up with EVERY excuse not to.
Source(s): I feel there's a danger that you are your own worst enemy here. You insecurities are fanning a fire that nobody else can extinguish. You say you don't trust your bf, yet you haven't got more than a suspicion that he's been in any way unfaithful to you... it's just that he has a female friend - and you are so incredibly jealous. - Anonymous7 years ago
yes. A relationship will NOT survive without trust. You will be miserable if you don't trust your partner
- 7 years ago
Many men have female friends but it doesn't get in the way of anything. Ask him to invite her to dinner at your place. Reason: So you can figure out what's going. A good time to turn on the intuition instead of fear.
- RuthAnnLv 77 years ago
He is not marriage material.
Cut your looses and start a new life.
He is emotionally and financially irresponsible.
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- .Lv 77 years ago
A "hoe" is a tool used to dig up weeds in a garden...they don't tend to make good partners or lovers...
Yes, you should walk away from a relationship when you don't trust your partner...what is the point in staying, if you're just waiting for him to cheat on you or lie to you??? You're making yourself miserable...
Suggested category: Singles & Dating...
- Anonymous7 years ago
I'm guessing you're somewhere between 19 and 23 based purely on the words you use, and the attitude you seem to have. One thing is for sure, you're not going to get your boyfriend to stop spending time with another chick by BADGERING him to death. So if you can't get him to spend more time with you because you're friggin cool to be with, then you're better off moving on to some other guy without a spine.
